"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Winning and Losing II

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The majority of the male species that exist upon the planet Earth today are a fallen race. The limitless potential that exists within each and every man of this age is hidden under the engulfing darkness of a warped, and often demeaning perspective.

The value of a man, the extent of his success, the very unit of measurement of his worth is now something external to the man himself. It is something that is completely apart from a man's achievements, his goals, his personality and his very being entirely...

... it is woman.

Every time some unwitting chump asked you "how many women have you slept with?" or perhaps "are you a virgin?" or something like "She is out of your league"", you were witness to the evidence to what I am saying here. Is it any wonder that you will automatically receive more respect from a guy if you convince him that you are far from being a virgin, have slept with dozens of highly attractive women, and can get any woman you desire to sleep with?

This happns all the time, for the simple reason that an Average Chump believes that the purpose of man is to find woman, and 99% of the Earth's male population can be categorised as Average Chumps.

But, wait, where does this path leave the average chump? What can he EVER accomplish with his life if all he does is score with highly desirable women? Having sexual intercourse is certainly no great achievement - any multi-cellular organism that reproduces sexually has been able to do the exact same thing. How does it feel to know that this "accomplishment" is so great that even insects can lead as important a life?

This finally brings me back full-circle, to the title of this thread. In the original thread entitled "Winning and Losing" (ref: DJBIBLE) I stated that, when it comes to women, the outcome is neither categorised as winning or losing, but simply as an experience. This thread, however, looks at life in the broader sense. Life itself can also be looked at as a series of experiences that change and define who we are - but a life experiencing nothing but the need for someone else to bring your life happiness and meaning, is a life lived without merit.

Surely, you don't need someone else to define who YOU are, do you?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Agreed. I believe god has given every man the tools needed to survive and live a glorious life. Why do we need to chase another person for our own happiness? As some of the more experienced have stated, "women are just the icing on the cake of life."
 

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Very eye-opening post! :cool:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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