"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Winning and Losing II

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The majority of the male species that exist upon the planet Earth today are a fallen race. The limitless potential that exists within each and every man of this age is hidden under the engulfing darkness of a warped, and often demeaning perspective.

The value of a man, the extent of his success, the very unit of measurement of his worth is now something external to the man himself. It is something that is completely apart from a man's achievements, his goals, his personality and his very being entirely...

... it is woman.

Every time some unwitting chump asked you "how many women have you slept with?" or perhaps "are you a virgin?" or something like "She is out of your league"", you were witness to the evidence to what I am saying here. Is it any wonder that you will automatically receive more respect from a guy if you convince him that you are far from being a virgin, have slept with dozens of highly attractive women, and can get any woman you desire to sleep with?

This happns all the time, for the simple reason that an Average Chump believes that the purpose of man is to find woman, and 99% of the Earth's male population can be categorised as Average Chumps.

But, wait, where does this path leave the average chump? What can he EVER accomplish with his life if all he does is score with highly desirable women? Having sexual intercourse is certainly no great achievement - any multi-cellular organism that reproduces sexually has been able to do the exact same thing. How does it feel to know that this "accomplishment" is so great that even insects can lead as important a life?

This finally brings me back full-circle, to the title of this thread. In the original thread entitled "Winning and Losing" (ref: DJBIBLE) I stated that, when it comes to women, the outcome is neither categorised as winning or losing, but simply as an experience. This thread, however, looks at life in the broader sense. Life itself can also be looked at as a series of experiences that change and define who we are - but a life experiencing nothing but the need for someone else to bring your life happiness and meaning, is a life lived without merit.

Surely, you don't need someone else to define who YOU are, do you?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Agreed. I believe god has given every man the tools needed to survive and live a glorious life. Why do we need to chase another person for our own happiness? As some of the more experienced have stated, "women are just the icing on the cake of life."
 

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Very eye-opening post! :cool:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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