"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Winking - good idea?

Magnatolia

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Hi All,

I'm heading on holidays tomorrow and I'm reading up and thinkg about my game (lack of) and hoping (praying, actually) that I can start a conversation up.

I've never kinoed in my life, and was wondering if you could give me some examples of how to kino without starting a convo. I read one example where a guy nudged a girl in her lower back (good position) to move forward in the line. She then kept checking him out.

I wanted to try this and was wondering, say the girl then turns around to ask why you touched her. Is it a good move to wink when you tell her.

Example: You're in a line and you nudge her to move forward. You tell her 'The line started moving' then wink? That way she knows that you're interested and not just impatient?

Can somebody please point me to some good examples of kino, that show the conversation as well as how they kinoed. I'd like to know their timing in relation to the convo.

Thanks
Jason
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Brian20o2

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Your example sounds kinda weak. The wink is great but use it only among people your familiar with. I wouldnt wink to some girl Ive never seen before unless she was giving IOI's and/or seemed friendly.
 

Brian20o2

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Originally posted by Magnatolia
What would you do if you were in a line behind an attractive girl?
Blush and then pass out.

jk

Its not bad as long as your really friendly and confident, also the line should be moving or else you will look like an ass.
I dont know how to answer your question cause every chick and situation is different. I might comment on the line being realy long and make friendly playfull conversation.
 

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A wink conveys the same as a cheeky smile/smirk. She'll get the idea.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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I think a wink is good for your arsenal when sarging but using it with that line about the line moving was very weak, a waste. I usually use it after a dramatic pause after giving a c/f line to a woman. You know when she stares at you not believing that you said what you said. Giving her a raised eyebrow, a wink and a nudge (for the kino effect) can make a lasting connection in her mind.
 
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