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Winking - good idea?

Magnatolia

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Hi All,

I'm heading on holidays tomorrow and I'm reading up and thinkg about my game (lack of) and hoping (praying, actually) that I can start a conversation up.

I've never kinoed in my life, and was wondering if you could give me some examples of how to kino without starting a convo. I read one example where a guy nudged a girl in her lower back (good position) to move forward in the line. She then kept checking him out.

I wanted to try this and was wondering, say the girl then turns around to ask why you touched her. Is it a good move to wink when you tell her.

Example: You're in a line and you nudge her to move forward. You tell her 'The line started moving' then wink? That way she knows that you're interested and not just impatient?

Can somebody please point me to some good examples of kino, that show the conversation as well as how they kinoed. I'd like to know their timing in relation to the convo.

Thanks
Jason
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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Brian20o2

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Your example sounds kinda weak. The wink is great but use it only among people your familiar with. I wouldnt wink to some girl Ive never seen before unless she was giving IOI's and/or seemed friendly.
 

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Originally posted by Magnatolia
What would you do if you were in a line behind an attractive girl?
Blush and then pass out.

jk

Its not bad as long as your really friendly and confident, also the line should be moving or else you will look like an ass.
I dont know how to answer your question cause every chick and situation is different. I might comment on the line being realy long and make friendly playfull conversation.
 

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A wink conveys the same as a cheeky smile/smirk. She'll get the idea.
 
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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I think a wink is good for your arsenal when sarging but using it with that line about the line moving was very weak, a waste. I usually use it after a dramatic pause after giving a c/f line to a woman. You know when she stares at you not believing that you said what you said. Giving her a raised eyebrow, a wink and a nudge (for the kino effect) can make a lasting connection in her mind.
 
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