“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Winking - good idea?

Magnatolia

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Hi All,

I'm heading on holidays tomorrow and I'm reading up and thinkg about my game (lack of) and hoping (praying, actually) that I can start a conversation up.

I've never kinoed in my life, and was wondering if you could give me some examples of how to kino without starting a convo. I read one example where a guy nudged a girl in her lower back (good position) to move forward in the line. She then kept checking him out.

I wanted to try this and was wondering, say the girl then turns around to ask why you touched her. Is it a good move to wink when you tell her.

Example: You're in a line and you nudge her to move forward. You tell her 'The line started moving' then wink? That way she knows that you're interested and not just impatient?

Can somebody please point me to some good examples of kino, that show the conversation as well as how they kinoed. I'd like to know their timing in relation to the convo.

Thanks
Jason
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Brian20o2

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Your example sounds kinda weak. The wink is great but use it only among people your familiar with. I wouldnt wink to some girl Ive never seen before unless she was giving IOI's and/or seemed friendly.
 

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Originally posted by Magnatolia
What would you do if you were in a line behind an attractive girl?
Blush and then pass out.

jk

Its not bad as long as your really friendly and confident, also the line should be moving or else you will look like an ass.
I dont know how to answer your question cause every chick and situation is different. I might comment on the line being realy long and make friendly playfull conversation.
 

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A wink conveys the same as a cheeky smile/smirk. She'll get the idea.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I think a wink is good for your arsenal when sarging but using it with that line about the line moving was very weak, a waste. I usually use it after a dramatic pause after giving a c/f line to a woman. You know when she stares at you not believing that you said what you said. Giving her a raised eyebrow, a wink and a nudge (for the kino effect) can make a lasting connection in her mind.
 
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