"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wingmen in Chicago

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Just moved to Chi Town. I'm living near Huron & Wabash. I definitely see lots lots of eye candy here and what's more, people here seem a lot friendlier than they are out East. I'm looking for a wing who knows the scene a little better than I do.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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babel

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people here seem a lot friendlier than they are out East
Interesting. I've heard that from a couple other people who just moved here. I spend a lot of time out East as well as West and find the friendliness level about the same everywhere. Perception, I guess.

I live pretty close to you, so let me know if you wanna meet up sometime.
 

flyaminita

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If you guys are looking for a meet up group there is this facebook group that IMO the most active one out there.

facebook /groups/midwestlair
 
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