"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just moved to Chi Town. I'm living near Huron & Wabash. I definitely see lots lots of eye candy here and what's more, people here seem a lot friendlier than they are out East. I'm looking for a wing who knows the scene a little better than I do.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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people here seem a lot friendlier than they are out East
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Interesting. I've heard that from a couple other people who just moved here. I spend a lot of time out East as well as West and find the friendliness level about the same everywhere. Perception, I guess.

I live pretty close to you, so let me know if you wanna meet up sometime.
 
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If you guys are looking for a meet up group there is this facebook group that IMO the most active one out there.

facebook /groups/midwestlair
 
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