Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Wingmen in Chicago

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Just moved to Chi Town. I'm living near Huron & Wabash. I definitely see lots lots of eye candy here and what's more, people here seem a lot friendlier than they are out East. I'm looking for a wing who knows the scene a little better than I do.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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babel

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people here seem a lot friendlier than they are out East
Interesting. I've heard that from a couple other people who just moved here. I spend a lot of time out East as well as West and find the friendliness level about the same everywhere. Perception, I guess.

I live pretty close to you, so let me know if you wanna meet up sometime.
 

flyaminita

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If you guys are looking for a meet up group there is this facebook group that IMO the most active one out there.

facebook /groups/midwestlair
 
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