"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Wingman who kills game

Fumbduck

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I think i'm going to answer my own question here.

I've got a wingman who comes off as creepy, brings down the mood, and gets very upset at rejection. I think he may repel women to an extent. Is it better to fly with a wing who is lacking, or fly solo?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Falcon25

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Fly with another wing man. I know one of these as well. He doesn't do it on purpose, he just doesn't know how to talk to women. It hurts my game. Guilty by association. Find another one, or isolate yourself and get her away from him as soon as possible.
 

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Get someone new... I'd rather go in alone than carrying dead weight, his presence WILL hurt your chances
 

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By definition he is not a wing man. He is a wing nut.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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IamJosan

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Go solo or go in a group. Groups are always fun. It's also fun if you go out with a group of women too. Wingwomen help so much! :D
 

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I also have someone like that too. He ruined sets with me already 3 times. Once I saw 3 cuties, I ask him to approach he says NO. I say OK I approach alone then I do the approach, 10 seconds later he shows up next to me and I lose my focus and I mess up.
 

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Just go and talk to him. Say "It's not you. It's me and that is why we cannot wing together anymore." Than go find a new wingman entirely :rolleyes: .

- comic_relief
 

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I figured I would have to "fire" him. Guilty by association is right! I was talking to this chick the other day and he was just standing there staring into space, gazing creepily around the bar. The girl actually commented saying, "is he ok??" :rolleyes:

Guess you have to treat wingmen like women if they're not living up to your standards..."NEXT".
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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