How many of you guys will play wingman for your buddies if the other chick is fat/ugly/etc.? I'll do it, basically so my boy's can hook up and it's not like you have to do the chick. Just wandering if you guys do this for your friends?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
wingman for the fat chic
- Thread starter tomyv
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
Its like this...every fat chick has a drop dead HB friend! That is good social proof for the future. Even if it means sucking it up for a few so your buddy can get his game going. Its not like you are going home with this cow! Treat her nice...Karma always prevails!
M.A.C.
M.A.C.
HeyPretty
Don Juan
My friend Ryan always does this for this friends, I see it at the bar all time. This hottie'll be chattin' up his mate, and Ryan'll take one for the team, and talk to the other... ahem, less attractive girl.
It pays off- I get approached by lots of attractive girls who think that Ryan is the sweetest thing in a 6'3" package. I set him up with a vertible fountain of poon. Last weekend actually, he got this hottie from Germany in the sack- it was her last night in town, and she wanted to do a Canadian, and all she could talk about to me was how "nice and sweet" he was to all the girls- regardless of looks.
And for spending half-an-hour with these ugly girls, he gets numbers of hot girls *thrown* at him.
It's worth it, if you can maintain the facade.
It pays off- I get approached by lots of attractive girls who think that Ryan is the sweetest thing in a 6'3" package. I set him up with a vertible fountain of poon. Last weekend actually, he got this hottie from Germany in the sack- it was her last night in town, and she wanted to do a Canadian, and all she could talk about to me was how "nice and sweet" he was to all the girls- regardless of looks.
And for spending half-an-hour with these ugly girls, he gets numbers of hot girls *thrown* at him.
It's worth it, if you can maintain the facade.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
First and foremost, that guy is more than a wingman, he has the status of Kamikaze. With that title and associated duties, the Wing Commander should reimburse him for his drinks, club cover and any incidentals (including rabies shots).
Doing things like that for this special fighter will promote the camaraderie and receptiveness of this dangerous duty. Usually guys in good relationships will do this for their buds for the right price.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Grenade??? Some of these women could be the weapons of mass destruction we've been looking for!!!!!