You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She probably makes $500 in 2-3 days.
no i wouldnt.
You'll never know if you would or not because you'll never have enough money.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
So have I. But not on a regular enough basis or with enough variety of girls, or girls that are good looking enough for me to be content.
Look at yourself, trying to convince yourself of your self worth lol
What about the girl I could have been with last week that I didn't because I didn't feel like driving 45 minutes?
nice you had sex with 2 girls without paying for them
Have you been working on your "body game"? I want to see you pound the same type you used to pay.
He gotta start from somewhere. ** Hand clap **
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I've been with way more than 2 girls for free.
No offense... But I've never heard you post a single field report the whole time you've been on this forum.
They pretty fine. You need to do a write-up on how to do that if it's what someone wants to do. The process, gotchas, negotiation, etc.
Go on Seeking Arrangement. If you can't figure it out from there, you have larger problems than I can help you with.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
He had em down to $150
It depends on the quality. A 21 year old Winghouse girl can reasonably ask $500.
With respect Richard, you’re not posting field reports. You are posting about interactions with prostitiutes. Nothing wrong with that but when I read the field reports others post, they don’t include the words ‘seeking arrangments’ ‘back pages’ and how much cash money was handed over to pay for their time.
Get off my posts permanently.
lol you'd probably want her if she'd let you for free
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.