Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

win-over the LJBF situation? how?

S

sad samurai

New Member
Joined
Jan 3, 2008
Messages
7
Reaction score
0
so this girl i hung out with for couple of weeks did this to me when i started to push a little bit forward. shes kinda gets her "best friend" into the scene like "hey u know there is a great girl in my firm that we should all get together to have a drink sometimes" - worse thing is although she put that in a vague way but she asks my sister directly "what type of girl i like? maybe she can keep an eye on it for me" ...

hell, this is very much a LJBF i believe. what i need for the gurus is that:

1. am i wrong and over reacting? maybe she tends to push me away to "test my limit"

2. so lets say it is 100% LJBF, and how do i win-over it...

can someone say something?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

S

sav

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2006
Messages
399
Reaction score
3
you win HER over by not being available ....

but, this can prove fairly difficult... what i would do in ur case is use her for her friends.. ;)
 
T

tn2005

New Member
Joined
Jan 5, 2008
Messages
3
Reaction score
0
Location
Wyoming
what I would do to is to take her out of her comfort zone, if she really things that you are just a friend she probably wont have a problem going to a "cool club/bar/ some other cool attraction" with you. Isolate her by inviting her and her alone, then once the two of you are together in this place don't be available to her romantically, hit on other women and pay her less attention. Believe it or not this will drive her your way.
 
Z

zack77766

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 1, 2007
Messages
116
Reaction score
0
sav said:
you win HER over by not being available ....

but, this can prove fairly difficult... what i would do in ur case is use her for her friends.. ;)
Click to expand...
Good idea. Exes remain exes.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top