"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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win-over the LJBF situation? how?

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so this girl i hung out with for couple of weeks did this to me when i started to push a little bit forward. shes kinda gets her "best friend" into the scene like "hey u know there is a great girl in my firm that we should all get together to have a drink sometimes" - worse thing is although she put that in a vague way but she asks my sister directly "what type of girl i like? maybe she can keep an eye on it for me" ...

hell, this is very much a LJBF i believe. what i need for the gurus is that:

1. am i wrong and over reacting? maybe she tends to push me away to "test my limit"

2. so lets say it is 100% LJBF, and how do i win-over it...

can someone say something?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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you win HER over by not being available ....

but, this can prove fairly difficult... what i would do in ur case is use her for her friends.. ;)
 
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what I would do to is to take her out of her comfort zone, if she really things that you are just a friend she probably wont have a problem going to a "cool club/bar/ some other cool attraction" with you. Isolate her by inviting her and her alone, then once the two of you are together in this place don't be available to her romantically, hit on other women and pay her less attention. Believe it or not this will drive her your way.
 
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sav said:
you win HER over by not being available ....

but, this can prove fairly difficult... what i would do in ur case is use her for her friends.. ;)
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Good idea. Exes remain exes.
 
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