"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Will venting on sites like SomeoneShootMe.com be useful to unwind after a sarge?
- Thread starter SSMKiss
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
brenbaus
Senior Don Juan
Honestly man what are you going to vent about. Are you going to be another one of those bitter guys saying stuff like "Man girls are nothing but bitttches and slluts" just because you had an off night? Or are you going to take a step back, review your material, and get the results you want?SSMKiss said:
Its a learning process, enjoy. To be honest I miss the days where getting a phone number or a first kiss was a big deal (not that I don't enjoy where I'm at now).
The main thing I want to get across to you is that if your putting so much importance on sarging where you have to 'vent' then your not going to make it.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Seriously, frustration is one of the most powerful motivators out there. I wish that stuff could be bottled, 'cause if you use it right, it's amazing. Channel it, use it, don't vent it. Why let it go when you can get angry enough and do things better next time?
EDIT - Typonizzle fo' shizzle
