"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Will venting on sites like SomeoneShootMe.com be useful to unwind after a sarge?
- Thread starter SSMKiss
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
brenbaus
Senior Don Juan
Honestly man what are you going to vent about. Are you going to be another one of those bitter guys saying stuff like "Man girls are nothing but bitttches and slluts" just because you had an off night? Or are you going to take a step back, review your material, and get the results you want?SSMKiss said:
Its a learning process, enjoy. To be honest I miss the days where getting a phone number or a first kiss was a big deal (not that I don't enjoy where I'm at now).
The main thing I want to get across to you is that if your putting so much importance on sarging where you have to 'vent' then your not going to make it.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Seriously, frustration is one of the most powerful motivators out there. I wish that stuff could be bottled, 'cause if you use it right, it's amazing. Channel it, use it, don't vent it. Why let it go when you can get angry enough and do things better next time?
EDIT - Typonizzle fo' shizzle
