"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Will venting on sites like SomeoneShootMe.com be useful to unwind after a sarge?

SSMKiss

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Will it be useful to have a release for pentup energy, or detrimental?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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What are you trying to do, just vent for the sake of venting or do you want to actually review what worked and what didn't so you can make any necessary adjustments?
 

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he just wants to b!tch about how his sarge went wrong!
 

milrenkb

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SSMKiss said:
Will it be useful to have a release for pentup energy, or detrimental?
Honestly man what are you going to vent about. Are you going to be another one of those bitter guys saying stuff like "Man girls are nothing but bitttches and slluts" just because you had an off night? Or are you going to take a step back, review your material, and get the results you want?

Its a learning process, enjoy. To be honest I miss the days where getting a phone number or a first kiss was a big deal (not that I don't enjoy where I'm at now).

The main thing I want to get across to you is that if your putting so much importance on sarging where you have to 'vent' then your not going to make it.
 

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I just think it's a positive thing to have a place to express things for their own sake without necessarily correcting them; it gives a release.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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KillaCam

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Would be nice to see you use that energy constructively.

Seriously, frustration is one of the most powerful motivators out there. I wish that stuff could be bottled, 'cause if you use it right, it's amazing. Channel it, use it, don't vent it. Why let it go when you can get angry enough and do things better next time?

EDIT - Typonizzle fo' shizzle ;)
 
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