"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ok, so there's me and this one chick who I like and she likes me. We've went out before and things have been real cool. We are suppose to be getting together soon. However there is a problem.

Recently, I had a bad acne breakout, but before that, my face was completely clear. In your opinion, Will this affect anything between us??? What can I do about this situation??
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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IMO, if she cares about you she'll love even the occasional acne break outs. Just act cool about it don't let it show that it bothers keep your confidence. in fact, just accept that its part of you and she will too.
 
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Any idea what caused it?

She shouldn't have any problem with it, what I'd do is bring it up and tell her that it happened all of a sudden and you're going to start working out to get rid of it.

Then start working out.
 
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it'll only bother her if she knows it bothers you, you big pansy.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The biggest problem with things like acne is not the acne itself (unless you've got it *really* bad) but when your confidence drops when you become self-conscious about it. Girls are very receptive about those things. Kakashi was right about not letting it bother you.
 
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As easy as it sounds and the other forum members are telling you:

Ignore it. If she's a girl she knows what it's like having a bad-looking day. Just be cool about it, look your best. She'll understand how you feel without talking about it. I've picked up lots of girls when I had acne, and non of them ever think it's a problem.

It only becomes a problem when you look like this:

http://www.medicalwellnesscenter.com/AcneFaceGrade4.jpg

And unless you don't , man, no worries!


Just think about how it would feel if you had acne all over your d*ck and I know that you'll feel better about it ;-)
 
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