"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Will this most likely be a problem??

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Bigtrucker2008

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Ok, so there's me and this one chick who I like and she likes me. We've went out before and things have been real cool. We are suppose to be getting together soon. However there is a problem.

Recently, I had a bad acne breakout, but before that, my face was completely clear. In your opinion, Will this affect anything between us??? What can I do about this situation??
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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IMO, if she cares about you she'll love even the occasional acne break outs. Just act cool about it don't let it show that it bothers keep your confidence. in fact, just accept that its part of you and she will too.
 
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Any idea what caused it?

She shouldn't have any problem with it, what I'd do is bring it up and tell her that it happened all of a sudden and you're going to start working out to get rid of it.

Then start working out.
 
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it'll only bother her if she knows it bothers you, you big pansy.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The biggest problem with things like acne is not the acne itself (unless you've got it *really* bad) but when your confidence drops when you become self-conscious about it. Girls are very receptive about those things. Kakashi was right about not letting it bother you.
 
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As easy as it sounds and the other forum members are telling you:

Ignore it. If she's a girl she knows what it's like having a bad-looking day. Just be cool about it, look your best. She'll understand how you feel without talking about it. I've picked up lots of girls when I had acne, and non of them ever think it's a problem.

It only becomes a problem when you look like this:

http://www.medicalwellnesscenter.com/AcneFaceGrade4.jpg

And unless you don't , man, no worries!


Just think about how it would feel if you had acne all over your d*ck and I know that you'll feel better about it ;-)
 
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