"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ok, so there's me and this one chick who I like and she likes me. We've went out before and things have been real cool. We are suppose to be getting together soon. However there is a problem.

Recently, I had a bad acne breakout, but before that, my face was completely clear. In your opinion, Will this affect anything between us??? What can I do about this situation??
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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IMO, if she cares about you she'll love even the occasional acne break outs. Just act cool about it don't let it show that it bothers keep your confidence. in fact, just accept that its part of you and she will too.
 
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Any idea what caused it?

She shouldn't have any problem with it, what I'd do is bring it up and tell her that it happened all of a sudden and you're going to start working out to get rid of it.

Then start working out.
 
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it'll only bother her if she knows it bothers you, you big pansy.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The biggest problem with things like acne is not the acne itself (unless you've got it *really* bad) but when your confidence drops when you become self-conscious about it. Girls are very receptive about those things. Kakashi was right about not letting it bother you.
 
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As easy as it sounds and the other forum members are telling you:

Ignore it. If she's a girl she knows what it's like having a bad-looking day. Just be cool about it, look your best. She'll understand how you feel without talking about it. I've picked up lots of girls when I had acne, and non of them ever think it's a problem.

It only becomes a problem when you look like this:

http://www.medicalwellnesscenter.com/AcneFaceGrade4.jpg

And unless you don't , man, no worries!


Just think about how it would feel if you had acne all over your d*ck and I know that you'll feel better about it ;-)
 
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