Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
bigshot said:Was just wondering if the chest press (machine) is as effective in building my pecs as much as the flat bench press?
Im asking this because I dont have access to free weights at the moment, just machines.
Im assuming the incline bench press is a better chest builder?Warboss Alex said:no, it isn't but it's better than nothing.
the flat bench isn't the best chest builder anyway
correct, because of fascial stretch. it stimulates the entire chest, not just the upperbigshot said:Im assuming the incline bench press is a better chest builder?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
incorrect.. the chest muscles will be more activated in a chest press machine. but press machines are easy and therefore will not give you the same results.playa99 said:lol you use 15% more chest muscle when you bench than when you chest press
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Yes weighted dips start placing a lot of stress on the shoulders/rotator cuff when you get more advanced and deal with a lot of weight. I know lol.Warboss Alex said:Inclines can be done at any angle from 10 to 45 degree, anything higher than that and it's more of a shoulder press.
Dips are great but when they get heavy they may bother your shoulders forcing you to keep the rep range higher and the reps lower, with the incline press you use more weight. (if we're talking hypertrophy)
I prefer to use dumbells for incline, it's easier to feel where the stretch is occurring compared to pressing a bar I reckon.Espi said:IMO, the incline is THE money builder when it comes to building the upper chest, which is most visually manifest and appealing...just be sure to lower the weights just short of your clavicle area...I see too many guys lowering the weight to the middle of their pecs, which is not as effective for building the upper chest.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
you need to be stronger to balance the free weights as well as lift them, yes.Frink' said:Isn't there something about freeweights being better than machenes because they have side to side movement too?