"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Will the chest press bulk out my chest as much as the flat bench press?

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Was just wondering if the chest press (machine) is as effective in building my pecs as much as the flat bench press?
Im asking this because I dont have access to free weights at the moment, just machines.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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no, it isn't but it's better than nothing.

the flat bench isn't the best chest builder anyway
 

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bigshot said:
Was just wondering if the chest press (machine) is as effective in building my pecs as much as the flat bench press?
Im asking this because I dont have access to free weights at the moment, just machines.

If you're a complete beginner you will get some benefit out of it. But only to a point.

However, free weights are always superior for a number of reasons. If nothing else is available continue with it, but move onto free weights as soon as you can.

As far as chest mass, incline bench is also better than flat. With free weights you'd be incorporating different lifts for overall progression like incline/decline, normal grip/close grip-whatever. With machines you can't do these things.

Quagmire
 

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Warboss Alex said:
no, it isn't but it's better than nothing.

the flat bench isn't the best chest builder anyway
Im assuming the incline bench press is a better chest builder?
 

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bigshot said:
Im assuming the incline bench press is a better chest builder?
correct, because of fascial stretch. it stimulates the entire chest, not just the upper
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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right now i use a chest press (i'm assuming it's the thing where you sit up and press your arms from the sides inward) because it does not hurt my shoulder like flat benching does. but i do believe that flat bencing is better
 

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lol you use 15% more chest muscle when you bench than when you chest press
 

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playa99 said:
lol you use 15% more chest muscle when you bench than when you chest press
incorrect.. the chest muscles will be more activated in a chest press machine. but press machines are easy and therefore will not give you the same results.

bench press (the proper way) doesn't affect the pectoral muscles very much, it's much more of a tricep/lat move.
 

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Inclines can be done at any angle from 10 to 45 degree, anything higher than that and it's more of a shoulder press.

Dips are great but when they get heavy they may bother your shoulders forcing you to keep the rep range higher and the weight lower, with the incline press you use more weight. (if we're talking hypertrophy)

edit: i meant 'rep range higher and weight lower'
 
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Warboss Alex said:
Inclines can be done at any angle from 10 to 45 degree, anything higher than that and it's more of a shoulder press.

Dips are great but when they get heavy they may bother your shoulders forcing you to keep the rep range higher and the reps lower, with the incline press you use more weight. (if we're talking hypertrophy)
Yes weighted dips start placing a lot of stress on the shoulders/rotator cuff when you get more advanced and deal with a lot of weight. I know lol.
 

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Espi said:
IMO, the incline is THE money builder when it comes to building the upper chest, which is most visually manifest and appealing...just be sure to lower the weights just short of your clavicle area...I see too many guys lowering the weight to the middle of their pecs, which is not as effective for building the upper chest.
I prefer to use dumbells for incline, it's easier to feel where the stretch is occurring compared to pressing a bar I reckon.
 

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I prefer dumbells for incline stuff because I always prefer dumbells over a bar for benching, just not a fan of it. Secondly, I train alone and I don't feel safe racking and unracking an inclined bar when there's some weight on it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Isn't there something about freeweights being better than machenes because they have side to side movement too?
 

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Frink' said:
Isn't there something about freeweights being better than machenes because they have side to side movement too?
you need to be stronger to balance the free weights as well as lift them, yes.
 

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i always use dumb bells when pressing my chest..start with the incline do 6x3, then flat for the same...i train by myself so i feel safer i used to use barbell and though i never got pinned it almost happening a few times
 
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