You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
bigshot said:Was just wondering if the chest press (machine) is as effective in building my pecs as much as the flat bench press?
Im asking this because I dont have access to free weights at the moment, just machines.
Im assuming the incline bench press is a better chest builder?Warboss Alex said:no, it isn't but it's better than nothing.
the flat bench isn't the best chest builder anyway
correct, because of fascial stretch. it stimulates the entire chest, not just the upperbigshot said:Im assuming the incline bench press is a better chest builder?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
incorrect.. the chest muscles will be more activated in a chest press machine. but press machines are easy and therefore will not give you the same results.playa99 said:lol you use 15% more chest muscle when you bench than when you chest press
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Yes weighted dips start placing a lot of stress on the shoulders/rotator cuff when you get more advanced and deal with a lot of weight. I know lol.Warboss Alex said:Inclines can be done at any angle from 10 to 45 degree, anything higher than that and it's more of a shoulder press.
Dips are great but when they get heavy they may bother your shoulders forcing you to keep the rep range higher and the reps lower, with the incline press you use more weight. (if we're talking hypertrophy)
I prefer to use dumbells for incline, it's easier to feel where the stretch is occurring compared to pressing a bar I reckon.Espi said:IMO, the incline is THE money builder when it comes to building the upper chest, which is most visually manifest and appealing...just be sure to lower the weights just short of your clavicle area...I see too many guys lowering the weight to the middle of their pecs, which is not as effective for building the upper chest.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
you need to be stronger to balance the free weights as well as lift them, yes.Frink' said:Isn't there something about freeweights being better than machenes because they have side to side movement too?