"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Will swine flu keep you from going out tomorrow night?

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I'm debating whether to go to a nightclub in a million+ city with some distant friends, opting for camping with my 'closer' friends up in the mountains. It's supposed to rain tomorrow. There will be a whole lot more girls at the nightclub. There MAY be one or two camping, but probably just us guys. *Psst, as a side note, I've recently had a fantasy of gang-bangin a chick in a tent.

So, would you let the ever-growing swine flu keep you from going out where there might be illegal mexicans or people who have it, and don't know they have it, having just been to Mexico on spring break or something?

I'm serious about this. I don't wanna die.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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im thinking about this too haha
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do any of you refrain from going out during normal flu season? Its not that much different, really. Besides, I doubt anyone with swine flu will want to go clubbing. Dont be paranoid, people. Alos, the hospitals here are a little better than Mexico city, I doubt many Amercans will die from it.
 

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I can't believe the level of panic that people are at right now, it's insanity.
The media is stirring the pot and loving it.
 

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I'm from the south. A couple of snow flurries and nearly all of 'my people' act like panicking idiots.
In the past, I thought that stupidity was more of a southern thing, but I now see that it's widespread.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm from the south. A couple of snow flurries and nearly all of 'my people' act like panicking idiots.
I'm in the midwest, and we get a mix. First, the people who hear about getting an inch of snow and there's a run on the grocery stores.
And then other people who don't adjust at all - first snow of the year and they're sliding their cars into each other.
 

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I'm in the midwest, and we get a mix. First, the people who hear about getting an inch of snow and there's a run on the grocery stores.
And then other people who don't adjust at all - first snow of the year and they're sliding their cars into each other.
Same here in the Northeast. That pretty much paints the picture.

They load up their shopping baskets with enough provisions for three weeks. The roads are always perfectly clear the next day.

Speaking of grocery stores, yesterday I saw a checkout girl with full face mask and nitrile gloves.
 

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Speaking of grocery stores, yesterday I saw a checkout girl with full face mask and nitrile gloves.
Lol. Wouldn't surprise me if we start seeing stores requiring their cashiers to wear this type of garb, this is the level of ridiculousness things are getting to. I've seen workers and customers running around in masks lately. Some people actually do have health conditions that require them to wear such masks, but I don't think that's what we're seeing here.

To be honest, I've been so vocal to people around me about how ridiculous this panic has been, that it would be kind of funny if I ended up dying of coronavirus. Wouldn't like it, but I can't deny there would be some humor in it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm ridiculing the panic, but I want to point out that I try to practice good health and hygiene practices. I don't run around with masks by any means, but good hand washing is a good practice to follow, coronavirus or not. I've been in public restrooms where I'm actually shocked at how many people don't wash their hands after using the facilities. Not exactly encouraging.
 

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I'm ridiculing the panic, but I want to point out that I try to practice good health and hygiene practices. I don't run around with masks by any means, but good hand washing is a good practice to follow, coronavirus or not. I've been in public restrooms where I'm actually shocked at how many people don't wash their hands after using the facilities. Not exactly encouraging.
I believe the panic is because of how easily it spreads and how much deadlier it is to older demographics...in younger people its very low risk but in older people you are looking at a 15-20% mortality rate and that is pretty high
 

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I'm hoping I escape it because all my life, even when young, when I got a common cold or flu, it took me down for a solid 6 weeks, with a long lingering cough for a few months afterwards.

Keep your eyes peeled for new openings in the mod team, lads. I'm not too sure I'd survive this virus if I got it.
 

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I believe the panic is because of how easily it spreads and how much deadlier it is to older demographics...in younger people its very low risk but in older people you are looking at a 15-20% mortality rate and that is pretty high
But does that mean less 50 year old cougar teachers possibly :(

Maybe this means more people will hop on OLD hopefully because lately the quantity and especially quality is VERY low.
 

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But does that mean less 50 year old cougar teachers possibly :(

Maybe this means more people will hop on OLD hopefully because lately the quantity and especially quality is VERY low.
Amazing how your troll ass can turn anything into an online dating derailment for any thread, even one from 11 years ago!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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