Will she text back?Did I text properly?

[Deleted member 138215]

I met a woman the other night from a dating site and we had sex on the first date!She had an orgasm and she said"wow I never had one like that before"I thought things went well and we seemed to have similar interest!

I went home that night and texted her this the next day at 10am"Hey girl!I had a great time last night!If you would like to get together again Let me know what your schedule is like!I'm pretty flexible!"

She replied at 5:15 "I had a good time too and busy the next couple days but will let you know.Hope you had a good day!"

I replied at 6.03 "Thank you!I did have a great day!I hope yours was great too!Just let me know when your available!"

That was Wednesday and its Saturday and I haven't heard anything back and I didn't text her back.I thought waiting for her to respond would be the best thing to do and I figured that I would wait it out and I have so far.I'll admit I want to see her again and If I dont it will suck!

Will she text back?Any opinions appreciated!

 

[jimwho]

That's only a couple days. Sit tight and wait for her to surface. If she doesn't, then move along.

 

[Bigpapa]

I met a woman the other night from a dating site and we had sex on the first date!She had an orgasm and she said"wow I never had one like that before"I thought things went well and we seemed to have similar interest!

I went home that night and texted her this the next day at 10am"Hey girl!I had a great time last night!If you would like to get together again Let me know what your schedule is like!I'm pretty flexible!"

She replied at 5:15 "I had a good time too and busy the next couple days but will let you know.Hope you had a good day!"

I replied at 6.03 "Thank you!I did have a great day!I hope yours was great too!Just let me know when your available!"

That was Wednesday and its Saturday and I haven't heard anything back and I didn't text her back.I thought waiting for her to respond would be the best thing to do and I figured that I would wait it out and I have so far.I'll admit I want to see her again and If I dont it will suck!

Will she text back?Any opinions appreciated!

you seemed to eager with the 2nd text by asking her again to let you know when she will be free

 

[Stoic]

Yes play it a little cooler. Far too eager. The balls in her court. Dont text her again unless she texts you.

In the meantime, arrange dates with other women.

Focus on one and you will have none. Talk to plenty and you will have many. Cheesy but true.

 

[Deleted member 138215]

you seemed to eager with the 2nd text by asking her again to let you know when she will be free

I agree in hindsight.I wish I would have said "Sounds good!I did have a great day hope yours was too!"

 

[Robert28]

Less exclamation points (!). Comes off as too eager and excited, like you haven’t been laid in a long time and now you finally got laid and you are about to wife her up if she fvcked you again.

I recently had a girl that seemed interested but blew me off and cancelled the day of our date. She claimed she was sick and could still go but “wouldn’t be herself”. She suggested two days later or “one day next week definitely”. She used a lot of exclamation points. Here was basically my response.

“Take care of yourself, hope you feel better.”

that was it. Didn’t mention a thing about her rescheduling or anything else.

 

[jimwho]

Look at it this way, a little eager yes. But by now she knows this guy that clearly likes her, was good in the sack, is not a textaholic. She'll call, and when she does, don't jump through hoops. I think the man-card is still good.

 

[bat soup]

I met a woman the other night from a dating site and we had sex on the first date!She had an orgasm and she said"wow I never had one like that before"I thought things went well and we seemed to have similar interest!

I went home that night and texted her this the next day at 10am"Hey girl!I had a great time last night!If you would like to get together again Let me know what your schedule is like!I'm pretty flexible!"

She replied at 5:15 "I had a good time too and busy the next couple days but will let you know.Hope you had a good day!"

I replied at 6.03 "Thank you!I did have a great day!I hope yours was great too!Just let me know when your available!"

That was Wednesday and its Saturday and I haven't heard anything back and I didn't text her back.I thought waiting for her to respond would be the best thing to do and I figured that I would wait it out and I have so far.I'll admit I want to see her again and If I dont it will suck!

Will she text back?Any opinions appreciated!

Leave it a week or two. You'll probably scare her away if you come on too strong and appear clingy. Sounds like she just wants sex, not a relationship.

 

[Deleted member 138215]

Look at it this way, a little eager yes. But by now she knows this guy that clearly likes her, was good in the sack, is not a textaholic. She'll call, and when she does, don't jump through hoops. I think the man-card is still good.

Thanks for the positive vibe.I hope your right and I won't text until I hear from her!

 

[Suave88]

I met a woman the other night from a dating site and we had sex on the first date!She had an orgasm and she said"wow I never had one like that before"I thought things went well and we seemed to have similar interest!

I went home that night and texted her this the next day at 10am"Hey girl!I had a great time last night!If you would like to get together again Let me know what your schedule is like!I'm pretty flexible!"

She replied at 5:15 "I had a good time too and busy the next couple days but will let you know.Hope you had a good day!"

I replied at 6.03 "Thank you!I did have a great day!I hope yours was great too!Just let me know when your available!"

That was Wednesday and its Saturday and I haven't heard anything back and I didn't text her back.I thought waiting for her to respond would be the best thing to do and I figured that I would wait it out and I have so far.I'll admit I want to see her again and If I dont it will suck!

Will she text back?Any opinions appreciated!

Sex on first date, met online...?= typically low value, trash type of woman........
I am surprised you are texting her at all......

 

[Bigpapa]

Sex on first date, met online...?= typically low value, trash type of woman........
I am surprised you are texting her at all......

In this desperate times a pre covid 5 becomes a covid 8

 

[KindredSpiritzz]

maybe she is waiting for you to text, show some interest and chase a little. I banged a chick last week Wednesday, i know she liked me but i never texted her after sex and she never contacted me again either. Kinda figured after a few days she would reach out but she didnt. I dont want to see her again so i dont care but seems like you want to see this one again. I think maybe they hold back to see if they were more than just a pump and dump maybe? Not sure i agree with just waiting on her to make the next move.

 

[Medina]

Sex on the first date is a red flag to me. She probably used you as a rebound or an ego boost

Regardless. The ball is in her court. Do nothing.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I met a woman the other night from a dating site and we had sex on the first date!She had an orgasm and she said"wow I never had one like that before"I thought things went well and we seemed to have similar interest!

I went home that night and texted her this the next day at 10am"Hey girl!I had a great time last night!If you would like to get together again Let me know what your schedule is like!I'm pretty flexible!"

She replied at 5:15 "I had a good time too and busy the next couple days but will let you know.Hope you had a good day!"

I replied at 6.03 "Thank you!I did have a great day!I hope yours was great too!Just let me know when your available!"

That was Wednesday and its Saturday and I haven't heard anything back and I didn't text her back.I thought waiting for her to respond would be the best thing to do and I figured that I would wait it out and I have so far.I'll admit I want to see her again and If I dont it will suck!

Will she text back?Any opinions appreciated!

You seemed pretty desperate with your texts. I would be surprised if she did. How a man acts after sex shows a lot.

She should have been texting you first.

 

[Deleted member 138215]

You seemed pretty desperate with your texts. I would be surprised if she did. How a man acts after sex shows a lot.

She should have been texting you first.

I think you may be right!I haven't heard a word!I guess anything text should really be thought out first!

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Will she text back?Did I text properly?

Why is this even a question?
You should not spend anytime at all wondering if a girl text you back or answer a message left on voice mail etc. or whatever.

The only thing you should do is not to give a fuaark.

Spin a plate and then start spinning next....

 

[Bigpapa]

Sex on the first date is a red flag to me. She probably used you as a rebound or an ego boost

Regardless. The ball is in her court. Do nothing.

people here complain a lot about women not wanting to sleep with them fast and that they would brake this rule for chads .

then when a woman sleeps with them fast they consider it a red flag

This 2 ways of thinking contradict themselves , especially since the same guys say both of them depending on the context

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I think you may be right!I haven't heard a word!I guess anything text should really be thought out first!

I mean you acted like you never had sex before, she is probably thinking to herself WTF is going on here.

 

[Bigpapa]

Thank you, lol. I swear some men have worse hamsters than women.

I get it that some guys here had really bad experiences with women , but in the same time it seems that people are more interested in being butt hurt rather than to actually move on .

like I said a lot of times ,women are as they are and this is why you should not take them seriously in the first place .

in the moment you start not taking them seriously anymore , you will see also how your success with the ladies will increase drastically

 

[Deleted member 138215]

I get it that some guys here had really bad experiences with women , but in the same time it seems that people are more interested in being butt hurt rather than to actually move on .

like I said a lot of times ,women are as they are and this is why you should not take them seriously in the first place .

in the moment you start not taking them seriously anymore , you will see also how your success with the ladies will increase drastically

I agree that I shouldn't have invested mentally so much.I still haven't heard back.I GUESS SHE IS GONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!NEXT!!!!!!