You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I'm projecting.I'm thinking of this. I haven't read anywhere that it does yet.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Go hire a makeup artist, a physical trainer and a fashion designer.I'm projecting.
When I posted this thread, I was fantasizing about the ex contacting me, telling me about his ordeal with Covid-19 and how its determined that he's now sterile....would I have him as a boyfriend again.
All made up fantasy daydreaming.
Daydreaming that he'd finally realise how lucky he is that he has a woman who won't demand kids and he will start pursuing me.
One year from now, I'll be embarassed at my oneitis
it really would be an excellent r.o.i. to do that.Go hire a makeup artist, a physical trainer and a fashion designer.
After 3 months, if u r diligent and disciplined, you'd get men chasing once more.
And to make em stick around, make sure you can give a good head and sound amazing in bed.
Simple solution. Don't make it complicated.
no kidding-didn't know he was about that.Don't know about that, but Bill Gates's standard M.O. is to use his vaccines to sterilize.
whoa Shepays, that's the first I've heard that GMOs cause infertility(both genders I presume)
It’s already attacked 90% of the people in the worlds brain lolIt will attack the brain and make a person hallucinate.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
If it has corn or wheat in it and is not labelled organic, it is gmo. Roundup herbicide tolerance is the gene mod. Almost all large scale farming is now no till, one pass spray and plant. There are not a lot of gmo crops out there. I have to laugh to stickers that say "non gmo" on products like pumpkins, because there is no such thing as a gmo pumpkin.whoa Shepays, that's the first I've heard that GMOs cause infertility(both genders I presume)
I've been loosely following the 'label it' movement-an effort to at least label which fruits and vegs are gmo.
At least label the conventional produce so the mass public knows or can question with their own google search.
I grew a half acre last year by myself and it was about all I could handle. That was cbd hemp, looks just like real weed. Hemp for fiber or for seed oil is mechanically done on a large scale. But cbd hemp is like growing weed. Each plant is hand harvested, hung, dried, and stripped. It is similar to a crop like tomatoes in regard to the labor required.Hemp is low input.
(please agree, please say yes, it is isn't Bible_Belt?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
future heart problems too, that's all I read so farSupposedly damaged lungs.
@Bible_BeltIf it has corn or wheat in it and is not labelled organic, it is gmo. Roundup herbicide tolerance is the gene mod. Almost all large scale farming is now no till, one pass spray and plant. There are not a lot of gmo crops out there. I have to laugh to stickers that say "non gmo" on products like pumpkins, because there is no such thing as a gmo pumpkin.
If you are into healthy food, gardening is best, but your local farmers markets can be the next best thing. You want a market with actual farmers and not resellers. Organic certification is expensive and not worth it for everyone, but there is plenty of produce at my own market that would meet the omri organic certification standards, but cannot be labelled organic by law.
Finally, under NAFTA we must accept the labelling on products without questioning them, which includes produce labelled as organic. Since that label can double the price, there is a lot of incentive to lie. I wouldn't trust anything from Mexico as actually meeting the standards. Hell, they can buy a lot more toxic chemical sprays than I can, that stuff might be worse than local non organic produce.
Where we can see it?@Bible_Belt
cban.ca sends me emails. In today's email they wrote there is a free streaming of the documentary 'Modified' until April 22.
The filmmaker wrote that this Canadian Biotechnology Action Network were able to answer some of the questions Health Canada wouldn't on why gmo's weren't labelled in Canada.
www.womensvoice.com/modifiedWhere we can see it?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.