Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I'm projecting.I'm thinking of this. I haven't read anywhere that it does yet.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Go hire a makeup artist, a physical trainer and a fashion designer.I'm projecting.
When I posted this thread, I was fantasizing about the ex contacting me, telling me about his ordeal with Covid-19 and how its determined that he's now sterile....would I have him as a boyfriend again.
All made up fantasy daydreaming.
Daydreaming that he'd finally realise how lucky he is that he has a woman who won't demand kids and he will start pursuing me.
One year from now, I'll be embarassed at my oneitis
it really would be an excellent r.o.i. to do that.Go hire a makeup artist, a physical trainer and a fashion designer.
After 3 months, if u r diligent and disciplined, you'd get men chasing once more.
And to make em stick around, make sure you can give a good head and sound amazing in bed.
Simple solution. Don't make it complicated.
no kidding-didn't know he was about that.Don't know about that, but Bill Gates's standard M.O. is to use his vaccines to sterilize.
whoa Shepays, that's the first I've heard that GMOs cause infertility(both genders I presume)
It’s already attacked 90% of the people in the worlds brain lolIt will attack the brain and make a person hallucinate.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
If it has corn or wheat in it and is not labelled organic, it is gmo. Roundup herbicide tolerance is the gene mod. Almost all large scale farming is now no till, one pass spray and plant. There are not a lot of gmo crops out there. I have to laugh to stickers that say "non gmo" on products like pumpkins, because there is no such thing as a gmo pumpkin.whoa Shepays, that's the first I've heard that GMOs cause infertility(both genders I presume)
I've been loosely following the 'label it' movement-an effort to at least label which fruits and vegs are gmo.
At least label the conventional produce so the mass public knows or can question with their own google search.
I grew a half acre last year by myself and it was about all I could handle. That was cbd hemp, looks just like real weed. Hemp for fiber or for seed oil is mechanically done on a large scale. But cbd hemp is like growing weed. Each plant is hand harvested, hung, dried, and stripped. It is similar to a crop like tomatoes in regard to the labor required.Hemp is low input.
(please agree, please say yes, it is isn't Bible_Belt?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
future heart problems too, that's all I read so farSupposedly damaged lungs.
@Bible_BeltIf it has corn or wheat in it and is not labelled organic, it is gmo. Roundup herbicide tolerance is the gene mod. Almost all large scale farming is now no till, one pass spray and plant. There are not a lot of gmo crops out there. I have to laugh to stickers that say "non gmo" on products like pumpkins, because there is no such thing as a gmo pumpkin.
If you are into healthy food, gardening is best, but your local farmers markets can be the next best thing. You want a market with actual farmers and not resellers. Organic certification is expensive and not worth it for everyone, but there is plenty of produce at my own market that would meet the omri organic certification standards, but cannot be labelled organic by law.
Finally, under NAFTA we must accept the labelling on products without questioning them, which includes produce labelled as organic. Since that label can double the price, there is a lot of incentive to lie. I wouldn't trust anything from Mexico as actually meeting the standards. Hell, they can buy a lot more toxic chemical sprays than I can, that stuff might be worse than local non organic produce.
Where we can see it?@Bible_Belt
cban.ca sends me emails. In today's email they wrote there is a free streaming of the documentary 'Modified' until April 22.
The filmmaker wrote that this Canadian Biotechnology Action Network were able to answer some of the questions Health Canada wouldn't on why gmo's weren't labelled in Canada.
www.womensvoice.com/modifiedWhere we can see it?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.