"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Considering advice given in various places about avoiding wild chaotic women, what do you guys think of this piece of writing by David Deida -

"By understanding their own needs, men can learn to accept the "whole package" of a woman. For instance, a more masculine man can expect that any woman who really turns him on and enlivens him will also be relatively wild, undisciplined, "bonkers," chaotic, prone to changing her mind and "lying." Still, from an energetic perspective, this kind of woman will be much more healing and inspiring to him than a more balanced or neutral woman who is steady, reasonable, "trustworthy," and able to say what she means in a way he can understand."
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I think it depends on whether you have the constant energy to be wild and chaotic with them.
 
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Way of the superior man, great book by the way. It is based on concept that each person has some parts of masculine and feminine mind. So in theory if you are , lets say 80:20 masculine feminine, then the ideal partner would have 20:80 ratio so that the energy is balanced. That way we are ''full'' .
 
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Glumix said:
What are your needs?
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Well, my main goal was to find the right woman & start a family, but now i'm not as driven to have a family. I've been with my GF for over year. I think i'm going to end the relationship soon. I think i'll then spin plates & my main goal will be to enjoy MY life...if I meet the right girl then so be it.
I still have a lot to learn. This relationship has been my first for a long time.

My needs? I really like my GF & have given her time to see what happens.
Does any man know or get what he thinks he needs? One might go looking for what he needs & finds something different that he loves. I'll look & see what I find.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I agree with what the OP's said. Wild and chaotic girls are the ones who really get me interested. Not wild like party all the time, doing really stupid ****, but that will crack jokes, take risks, aren't afraid to piss people off etc. Girls who are confident enough and have goals and the ability to do things for themselves and don't need a man are attractive to me, they are hard to pin down but being with them makes me feel alive at times, its also like crack in that in the long run it will usually end really bad for you, but you can't stop taking that hit.
 
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