"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Saw this one again today, and it never ceases to amaze me. A girl at the gym was asking me about my business and informed me that she was majoring in my profession. As she was asking me for advice about internships and et cetera, her eyes were darting like fireflies on speed, so much that it almost threw me off. It was like she was hanging on my every word.

What do you guys make of the racing eyes? Do you call it a strong IOI, or a nervous response?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Julius_Seizeher said:
Do you call it a strong IOI, or a nervous response?

Crikey ! Can you imagine her eye movements at the moment of orgasm ? Perhaps they also can change color and revolve counterclockwise ?

How would you feel staring at her face on sunday mornings while she struggles with her focus on the morning paper and spills her coffee all over you, and your new sheets, because she cannot see the cup for long enough to get a grip?

And lastly, if you do date this woman, do not allow her to drive.
 

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If she does it without looking like some poisoned concubine then she simply IS in awe :eek: of your "professional" wisdom.





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What do you guys make of the racing eyes? Do you call it a strong IOI, or a nervous response?
Drugs.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Could be an IOI but it could also just mean she's very interested in your knowledge. Here's what's more important: she definitely has psychological issues, probably cluster B. So beware...
 

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Die Hard said:
Could be an IOI but it could also just mean she's very interested in your knowledge. Here's what's more important: she definitely has psychological issues, probably cluster B. So beware...
Seriously, I'm starting to get annoyed by how often the cluster B excuse comes around. There is NOT enough information in the original post to determine whether or not she had any sort of cluster B disorder.

When people so quickly jump to that as an explanation of behavior, it reduces the experiences of people who REALLY had to deal with a cluster B nutcase.

Erratic eye movement means nothing in and of itself and it should be treated that way.

OP, you want advice? Make fun her and jokingly ask her if she was on a stimulant of some sort. Then stare at her breasts just long enough to make her self-conscious. Ask her for her number, or better yet ask her to grab an after workout protein shake with you.

It doesn't really matter what you do, so long as there is action.
 

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wjh said:
It doesn't really matter what you do, so long as there is action.
Or at least a good post purporting action. :)
 

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wjh said:
Seriously, I'm starting to get annoyed by how often the cluster B excuse comes around. There is NOT enough information in the original post to determine whether or not she had any sort of cluster B disorder.

When people so quickly jump to that as an explanation of behavior, it reduces the experiences of people who REALLY had to deal with a cluster B nutcase.

Erratic eye movement means nothing in and of itself and it should be treated that way.

Your'e right and I'm wrong :up:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The eyes are the window to the soul,you may find a scatterbrained bimbo under the eyes.
 

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Julius_Seizeher said:
Saw this one again today, and it never ceases to amaze me. A girl at the gym was asking me about my business and informed me that she was majoring in my profession. As she was asking me for advice about internships and et cetera, her eyes were darting like fireflies on speed, so much that it almost threw me off. It was like she was hanging on my every word.

What do you guys make of the racing eyes? Do you call it a strong IOI, or a nervous response?
I'm surprised no one mentioned, "Maybe she's a goldigger". Sounds like her eye's lit up because she found out you had a business, which set off a "cha-ching" orgasm.
 

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It just means she's weird and has an idiosyncracy that you can't just look at in a vacuum.
 
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