"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Wild and crazy eyes

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Saw this one again today, and it never ceases to amaze me. A girl at the gym was asking me about my business and informed me that she was majoring in my profession. As she was asking me for advice about internships and et cetera, her eyes were darting like fireflies on speed, so much that it almost threw me off. It was like she was hanging on my every word.

What do you guys make of the racing eyes? Do you call it a strong IOI, or a nervous response?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Julius_Seizeher said:
Do you call it a strong IOI, or a nervous response?

Crikey ! Can you imagine her eye movements at the moment of orgasm ? Perhaps they also can change color and revolve counterclockwise ?

How would you feel staring at her face on sunday mornings while she struggles with her focus on the morning paper and spills her coffee all over you, and your new sheets, because she cannot see the cup for long enough to get a grip?

And lastly, if you do date this woman, do not allow her to drive.
 

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If she does it without looking like some poisoned concubine then she simply IS in awe :eek: of your "professional" wisdom.





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What do you guys make of the racing eyes? Do you call it a strong IOI, or a nervous response?
Drugs.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Could be an IOI but it could also just mean she's very interested in your knowledge. Here's what's more important: she definitely has psychological issues, probably cluster B. So beware...
 

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Die Hard said:
Could be an IOI but it could also just mean she's very interested in your knowledge. Here's what's more important: she definitely has psychological issues, probably cluster B. So beware...
Seriously, I'm starting to get annoyed by how often the cluster B excuse comes around. There is NOT enough information in the original post to determine whether or not she had any sort of cluster B disorder.

When people so quickly jump to that as an explanation of behavior, it reduces the experiences of people who REALLY had to deal with a cluster B nutcase.

Erratic eye movement means nothing in and of itself and it should be treated that way.

OP, you want advice? Make fun her and jokingly ask her if she was on a stimulant of some sort. Then stare at her breasts just long enough to make her self-conscious. Ask her for her number, or better yet ask her to grab an after workout protein shake with you.

It doesn't really matter what you do, so long as there is action.
 

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wjh said:
It doesn't really matter what you do, so long as there is action.
Or at least a good post purporting action. :)
 

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wjh said:
Seriously, I'm starting to get annoyed by how often the cluster B excuse comes around. There is NOT enough information in the original post to determine whether or not she had any sort of cluster B disorder.

When people so quickly jump to that as an explanation of behavior, it reduces the experiences of people who REALLY had to deal with a cluster B nutcase.

Erratic eye movement means nothing in and of itself and it should be treated that way.

Your'e right and I'm wrong :up:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The eyes are the window to the soul,you may find a scatterbrained bimbo under the eyes.
 

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Julius_Seizeher said:
Saw this one again today, and it never ceases to amaze me. A girl at the gym was asking me about my business and informed me that she was majoring in my profession. As she was asking me for advice about internships and et cetera, her eyes were darting like fireflies on speed, so much that it almost threw me off. It was like she was hanging on my every word.

What do you guys make of the racing eyes? Do you call it a strong IOI, or a nervous response?
I'm surprised no one mentioned, "Maybe she's a goldigger". Sounds like her eye's lit up because she found out you had a business, which set off a "cha-ching" orgasm.
 

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It just means she's weird and has an idiosyncracy that you can't just look at in a vacuum.
 
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