Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Zelda. Excitetruck isn't great but it's fun. I'm personally waiting until Mario Kart and SSB come out.Vincent said:What games on the wii are coming out recently that are the games to get, because the 360 already has gears of war and I hear that game is awesome.
I've never been much of a zelda person. How are the fps on the wii?MetalFortress said:Zelda. Excitetruck isn't great but it's fun. I'm personally waiting until Mario Kart and SSB come out.
There aren´t many out yet for the Wii. Red Steel is a fps, but it has bad ratings...Vincent said:I've never been much of a zelda person. How are the fps on the wii?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
er.....correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't RE5 a PS3 announced game? Besides, you just know it'll look so much better on the PS3, or 360 for that matter. Considering the nature of the series I doubt they would even do much with the Wii controls anyway.KarmaSutra said:The only 2 reasons I want the Wii are:
Zelda: Twilight Princess
Resident Evil 5.
Red Steel is the only one thus far, and it's getting mixed reviews. I haven't played it yet myself.Vincent said:I've never been much of a zelda person. How are the fps on the wii?
Scrumtulescence said:er.....correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't RE5 a PS3 announced game? Besides, you just know it'll look so much better on the PS3, or 360 for that matter. Considering the nature of the series I doubt they would even do much with the Wii controls anyway.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That's exactly what makes it different.ChrizZ said:On the other hand I think XBOX 360 is exactly the same as the old xbox, just better graphics and that´s all
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.