"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Wifey thinks open marriage is his lover being his work & her fooling around with non-monogamous men!

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NOTE: This is the same link as an earlier thread I had posted, but this is so d@mn good, I had to post as another thread!

https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWom..._thoughts_on_the_case_for_settling_for_mrgood
From the beginning we decided to have an open relationship. His other lover is his work, and I get my occasional thrills with other non-monogamous men. My husband doesn't have a strong jealous drive, and both of our libidos pick up when I'm dating new people, so it's win win!
W T F? :mad::mad::mad::down::down::rolleyes:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This! I mean it's fine that you (@MatureDJ) are posting articles and links, but at least put some more effort into it than emojis and "WTF". Share your thoughts in more detail or make an argument. Just something that will be better for sparking a discussion and not just spamming the forums with emoji reactions to articles threads.
 

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This! I mean it's fine that you (@MatureDJ) are posting articles and links, but at least put some more effort into it than emojis and "WTF". Share your thoughts in more detail or make an argument. Just something that will be better for sparking a discussion and not just spamming the forums with emoji reactions to articles threads.
What can be said about this type of solipsistic behavior? The man is "free" to devote himself to his job while the woman is free to devote herself to Chad. It is the perfect application of the "Schedules of Mating" where alpha fux, beta bux.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What can be said about this type of solipsistic behavior? The man is "free" to devote himself to his job while the woman is free to devote herself to Chad. It is the perfect application of the "Schedules of Mating" where alpha fux, beta bux.
Beta need to stop complaining and get his shyt together .
 
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