"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wifey thinks open marriage is his lover being his work & her fooling around with non-monogamous men!

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NOTE: This is the same link as an earlier thread I had posted, but this is so d@mn good, I had to post as another thread!

https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWom..._thoughts_on_the_case_for_settling_for_mrgood
From the beginning we decided to have an open relationship. His other lover is his work, and I get my occasional thrills with other non-monogamous men. My husband doesn't have a strong jealous drive, and both of our libidos pick up when I'm dating new people, so it's win win!
W T F? :mad::mad::mad::down::down::rolleyes:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This! I mean it's fine that you (@MatureDJ) are posting articles and links, but at least put some more effort into it than emojis and "WTF". Share your thoughts in more detail or make an argument. Just something that will be better for sparking a discussion and not just spamming the forums with emoji reactions to articles threads.
 

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This! I mean it's fine that you (@MatureDJ) are posting articles and links, but at least put some more effort into it than emojis and "WTF". Share your thoughts in more detail or make an argument. Just something that will be better for sparking a discussion and not just spamming the forums with emoji reactions to articles threads.
What can be said about this type of solipsistic behavior? The man is "free" to devote himself to his job while the woman is free to devote herself to Chad. It is the perfect application of the "Schedules of Mating" where alpha fux, beta bux.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What can be said about this type of solipsistic behavior? The man is "free" to devote himself to his job while the woman is free to devote herself to Chad. It is the perfect application of the "Schedules of Mating" where alpha fux, beta bux.
Beta need to stop complaining and get his shyt together .
 
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