Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
W T F?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What are your thoughts?NOTE: This is the same link as an earlier thread I had posted, but this is so d@mn good, I had to post as another thread!
https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWom..._thoughts_on_the_case_for_settling_for_mrgood
W T F?
This! I mean it's fine that you (@MatureDJ) are posting articles and links, but at least put some more effort into it than emojis and "WTF". Share your thoughts in more detail or make an argument. Just something that will be better for sparking a discussion and not just spamming the forums with emoji reactions to articles threads.
What can be said about this type of solipsistic behavior? The man is "free" to devote himself to his job while the woman is free to devote herself to Chad. It is the perfect application of the "Schedules of Mating" where alpha fux, beta bux.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Beta need to stop complaining and get his shyt together .