ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Dude, no. Just no.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Wife wanted to leave and I let her?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
SgtSplacker
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One thing for sure, there's some kind of crisis going on with her that makes her react so extremely. At the very least download a period tracker app on your phone and start tracking that PMS so you know when it's her hormones.
El Payaso
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Everything a woman does is just for attention.
Women will do so many stupid things just for attention. I don't think she's cheating or planning any exit.
Women love attention and any moment when you're more interested in anything else besides them throws them into whirlwind mode.
They will do anything to get your attention back ranging from seduction to sh!t tests to dread game.
Maintain your frame and don't become needy. Remember that you are the leader in your relationship and she will follow you anywhere you go.
You have the ability to move the relationship in any direction you want.
Don't become a softie just because she's wailing and crying. Remember that she fell in love with you because of your alpha behavior.
That being said, always reward her and show her more affection when she's being a good wife.
Women will do so many stupid things just for attention. I don't think she's cheating or planning any exit.
Women love attention and any moment when you're more interested in anything else besides them throws them into whirlwind mode.
They will do anything to get your attention back ranging from seduction to sh!t tests to dread game.
Maintain your frame and don't become needy. Remember that you are the leader in your relationship and she will follow you anywhere you go.
You have the ability to move the relationship in any direction you want.
Don't become a softie just because she's wailing and crying. Remember that she fell in love with you because of your alpha behavior.
That being said, always reward her and show her more affection when she's being a good wife.
Atom Smasher
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There's more going on here than meets the eye.
SgtSplacker
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Agreed, and it doesn't have to be about cheating either. Some hormonal issues ....
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Speculator E
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This really sound like a classic push pull episode from a borderline. This forum used to talk about borderline now a day nothing.
more like lack of info and if what he said is true about this being the only issue, could be just a way to gather his atencion who backfired, maybe she didnt expected he jsut buy teh damn ticket and hoped he did something to make her stay, not first time I see this kind of thing and pretty sure its not the last