ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Dude, no. Just no.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Wife wanted to leave and I let her?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
SgtSplacker
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One thing for sure, there's some kind of crisis going on with her that makes her react so extremely. At the very least download a period tracker app on your phone and start tracking that PMS so you know when it's her hormones.
El Payaso
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Everything a woman does is just for attention.
Women will do so many stupid things just for attention. I don't think she's cheating or planning any exit.
Women love attention and any moment when you're more interested in anything else besides them throws them into whirlwind mode.
They will do anything to get your attention back ranging from seduction to sh!t tests to dread game.
Maintain your frame and don't become needy. Remember that you are the leader in your relationship and she will follow you anywhere you go.
You have the ability to move the relationship in any direction you want.
Don't become a softie just because she's wailing and crying. Remember that she fell in love with you because of your alpha behavior.
That being said, always reward her and show her more affection when she's being a good wife.
Women will do so many stupid things just for attention. I don't think she's cheating or planning any exit.
Women love attention and any moment when you're more interested in anything else besides them throws them into whirlwind mode.
They will do anything to get your attention back ranging from seduction to sh!t tests to dread game.
Maintain your frame and don't become needy. Remember that you are the leader in your relationship and she will follow you anywhere you go.
You have the ability to move the relationship in any direction you want.
Don't become a softie just because she's wailing and crying. Remember that she fell in love with you because of your alpha behavior.
That being said, always reward her and show her more affection when she's being a good wife.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
There's more going on here than meets the eye.
SgtSplacker
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Agreed, and it doesn't have to be about cheating either. Some hormonal issues ....
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Speculator E
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This really sound like a classic push pull episode from a borderline. This forum used to talk about borderline now a day nothing.
more like lack of info and if what he said is true about this being the only issue, could be just a way to gather his atencion who backfired, maybe she didnt expected he jsut buy teh damn ticket and hoped he did something to make her stay, not first time I see this kind of thing and pretty sure its not the last