"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wife stood by his man(wife beater)

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http://www.nypost.com/news/nypdblotter/nypdblotter.htm

An Upper East Side man was arrested for beating his wife after their baby sitter gave him up to cops, authorities said yesterday.

Robert Gilan, 44, allegedly slugged his wife in the face in the presence of their children, ages 4 and 7, in the couple's Park Avenue apartment at 11:50 p.m. Saturday.

Police were called, but the victim refused to cooperate and apparently tried to cover up the crime.

She claimed she suffered a black eye when she fell to the ground. But the baby sitter, who was caring for the kids, told cops the husband had punched his wife.

Based on the sitter's account, the husband was charged with attempted assault and child endangerment, a DA's spokeswoman said.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yep just another Rihanna.

Yet another sad lost cause afflicted with the Stockholm Syndrome.
 
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