"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Wierd Case Of Oneitis :/

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Me and my gf broke up lastnight. I guess it was my decision on whole, but its peed me off. For 3 months of her being depressed i tried to be there for her and when i felt down she was never there for me.

She's selfish,heartless and only speaks about stupid horsies LoL you would think shes 5. Anyways the thing is ive blocked her on MSN and that but i have a bit of oneitis i feel like utter crap and its ruined my game, ive forgot all my dj stuff shes really peed me off. Im more angry then upset because i was there for her and she wasnt there for me, i want to get over it, date other girls is my way of doing that, but ive lost all my dj ways :/ how do i stop myself from wanting to ring her, i have urges to do it now and then, i just think fook the b!tch and then next moment i feel like crap. I want to get over her fast because shes a utter c0w.
should i read the dj bible again?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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mate i get this a lot even though my old oneitis was the biggest evil hor around. Just be strong and don't call her. Think about this way, the more you call her the weaker you are, the less you call the stronger you are. Each moment of pain that you feel makes you stronger because it's another step towards being free of the goddamn *****.

And it makes her wonder what the hell you are doing too. Makes her regret losing you. If you call her the evil ***** will be even more evil because she's thinking "haha, he can't live without me even though I treat him like dog shvt"

go out to the strippers, go out with the boys, go get a hooker if u have to haha.
 
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man that was great advice thats kinda inspired me not to contact her again, thanks :) anyways i reckon i should go check out the dj bible again ive kinda lost my way :/ lol
 
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no problem mate keep me updated, I'm not a DJ, but with many oneitis problems, I can help you out there!
 
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TheFlyingMan's advice is kinda spot on, always remember how bad she treated you and that will help in cutting off your oneitis.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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yea man, things will only get better. it happend to me and i still get moments of thought circling round her but just get out there and socialise, it really works. Just get on with YOUR life and things will fall into place.
 
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