Wierd Case Of Oneitis :/

[DJsparky]

Me and my gf broke up lastnight. I guess it was my decision on whole, but its peed me off. For 3 months of her being depressed i tried to be there for her and when i felt down she was never there for me.

She's selfish,heartless and only speaks about stupid horsies LoL you would think shes 5. Anyways the thing is ive blocked her on MSN and that but i have a bit of oneitis i feel like utter crap and its ruined my game, ive forgot all my dj stuff shes really peed me off. Im more angry then upset because i was there for her and she wasnt there for me, i want to get over it, date other girls is my way of doing that, but ive lost all my dj ways :/ how do i stop myself from wanting to ring her, i have urges to do it now and then, i just think fook the b!tch and then next moment i feel like crap. I want to get over her fast because shes a utter c0w.
should i read the dj bible again?

 

[TheFlyingMan]

mate i get this a lot even though my old oneitis was the biggest evil hor around. Just be strong and don't call her. Think about this way, the more you call her the weaker you are, the less you call the stronger you are. Each moment of pain that you feel makes you stronger because it's another step towards being free of the goddamn *****.

And it makes her wonder what the hell you are doing too. Makes her regret losing you. If you call her the evil ***** will be even more evil because she's thinking "haha, he can't live without me even though I treat him like dog shvt"

go out to the strippers, go out with the boys, go get a hooker if u have to haha.

 

[DJsparky]

man that was great advice thats kinda inspired me not to contact her again, thanks anyways i reckon i should go check out the dj bible again ive kinda lost my way :/ lol

 

[TheFlyingMan]

no problem mate keep me updated, I'm not a DJ, but with many oneitis problems, I can help you out there!

 

[Macgyver]

TheFlyingMan's advice is kinda spot on, always remember how bad she treated you and that will help in cutting off your oneitis.

 

[Lion]

yea man, things will only get better. it happend to me and i still get moments of thought circling round her but just get out there and socialise, it really works. Just get on with YOUR life and things will fall into place.