Thats another thing im afraid of lol, shes a quality girl too.ARrocket said:Yeah, it makes her jealous, but still, if you don't act, she'll just assume you don't like her.
Happened to me TOO many times.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Thats another thing im afraid of lol, shes a quality girl too.ARrocket said:Yeah, it makes her jealous, but still, if you don't act, she'll just assume you don't like her.
Happened to me TOO many times.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Well, that's good. She sees that your interesting enough for other girls to want to talk to, and that will cause her to be into you more.HandyAndy said:Well during class, im always talking to other girls and having a good time with them, laughing and all...does she get jealous? If so, does her being jealous change the game or not?
Good, sometimes i do it on purpose just to see her reactiontick37 said:Well, that's good. She sees that your interesting enough for other girls to want to talk to, and that will cause her to be into you more.
I talk to women all the freakin' time. If I get a coldness from them, I just don't worry about them. If they seem interested, I go for it. It's not really that hard once you do it. It's just doing it that's hard. You need to try not to attach so many negative feelings to her (i.e. rejection, humiliation, and whatever else). Think of the good things that could come out of it, but the key is to not attach to much to it at all. You've lived your whole life, happily, without this girl. So, you really don't have anything to lose.HandyAndy said:Good, sometimes i do it on purpose just to see her reaction![]()
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I know its just that ive had such a long time to talk to her and shes been showing interest since the day I walked the classroom, with all the time that I didnt talk to her i built up all this negative tension and now im starting to feel nervous, i would have been able to talk to her if she wasnt showing any interest, for some reason i get nervous around the girls that actually like me :nervous:tick37 said:I talk to women all the freakin' time. If I get a coldness from them, I just don't worry about them. If they seem interested, I go for it. It's not really that hard once you do it. It's just doing it that's hard. You need to try not to attach so many negative feelings to her (i.e. rejection, humiliation, and whatever else). Think of the good things that could come out of it, but the key is to not attach to much to it at all. You've lived your whole life, happily, without this girl. So, you really don't have anything to lose.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Knowing the girl likes you should make it easier for you. Regret is far worse than rejection. Good luck, bro.HandyAndy said:I know its just that ive had such a long time to talk to her and shes been showing interest since the day I walked the classroom, with all the time that I didnt talk to her i built up all this negative tension and now im starting to feel nervous, i would have been able to talk to her if she wasnt showing any interest, for some reason i get nervous around the girls that actually like me :nervous:
Thanks for all the help, ill try this sometimetick37 said:Knowing the girl likes you should make it easier for you. Regret is far worse than rejection. Good luck, bro.
So true this happened to me some time ago when I did not f close this girl cause i liked her and wanted to move slow...LOL she moved on...tick37 said:If you don't make a move, she'll think you're a wimp. Does that help? She'll just move on to the next decent guy that gives her attention because she's single and she can.
Why don't you tell us HandyAndy? After all, giving all the advice you do you should know this.HandyAndy said:Why is it that when a girl shows interest you suddenly start to like her, when you never did before?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Shouldnt you be playing rock band or something?ElStud said:Why don't you tell us HandyAndy? After all, giving all the advice you do you should know this.