"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ARrocket said:
Yeah, it makes her jealous, but still, if you don't act, she'll just assume you don't like her.

Happened to me TOO many times.
Thats another thing im afraid of lol, shes a quality girl too.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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HandyAndy said:
Well during class, im always talking to other girls and having a good time with them, laughing and all...does she get jealous? If so, does her being jealous change the game or not?
Well, that's good. She sees that your interesting enough for other girls to want to talk to, and that will cause her to be into you more.
 

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tick37 said:
Well, that's good. She sees that your interesting enough for other girls to want to talk to, and that will cause her to be into you more.
Good, sometimes i do it on purpose just to see her reaction :up:

I have yet to say something to :down:
 

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HandyAndy said:
Good, sometimes i do it on purpose just to see her reaction :up:

I have yet to say something to :down:
I talk to women all the freakin' time. If I get a coldness from them, I just don't worry about them. If they seem interested, I go for it. It's not really that hard once you do it. It's just doing it that's hard. You need to try not to attach so many negative feelings to her (i.e. rejection, humiliation, and whatever else). Think of the good things that could come out of it, but the key is to not attach to much to it at all. You've lived your whole life, happily, without this girl. So, you really don't have anything to lose.
 

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tick37 said:
I talk to women all the freakin' time. If I get a coldness from them, I just don't worry about them. If they seem interested, I go for it. It's not really that hard once you do it. It's just doing it that's hard. You need to try not to attach so many negative feelings to her (i.e. rejection, humiliation, and whatever else). Think of the good things that could come out of it, but the key is to not attach to much to it at all. You've lived your whole life, happily, without this girl. So, you really don't have anything to lose.
I know its just that ive had such a long time to talk to her and shes been showing interest since the day I walked the classroom, with all the time that I didnt talk to her i built up all this negative tension and now im starting to feel nervous, i would have been able to talk to her if she wasnt showing any interest, for some reason i get nervous around the girls that actually like me :nervous:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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HandyAndy said:
I know its just that ive had such a long time to talk to her and shes been showing interest since the day I walked the classroom, with all the time that I didnt talk to her i built up all this negative tension and now im starting to feel nervous, i would have been able to talk to her if she wasnt showing any interest, for some reason i get nervous around the girls that actually like me :nervous:
Knowing the girl likes you should make it easier for you. Regret is far worse than rejection. Good luck, bro.
 

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tick37 said:
If you don't make a move, she'll think you're a wimp. Does that help? She'll just move on to the next decent guy that gives her attention because she's single and she can.
So true this happened to me some time ago when I did not f close this girl cause i liked her and wanted to move slow...LOL she moved on...
 

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HandyAndy said:
Why is it that when a girl shows interest you suddenly start to like her, when you never did before?
Why don't you tell us HandyAndy? After all, giving all the advice you do you should know this.
 

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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God damn, im such a ****ing wimp. Today we were just chillin in class cuz its the last day and spring break is coming, im relaxing and talking with 3 of my friends and this same chick is sitting across the room basically staring at me and when i look over she'll just smile and start laughing to herself, but im too much of a wuss bag to talk to her and i felt bad because she was sitting there all alone cuz her friends were absent, someone shoot me.
 
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