Thats another thing im afraid of lol, shes a quality girl too.ARrocket said:Yeah, it makes her jealous, but still, if you don't act, she'll just assume you don't like her.
Happened to me TOO many times.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Thats another thing im afraid of lol, shes a quality girl too.ARrocket said:Yeah, it makes her jealous, but still, if you don't act, she'll just assume you don't like her.
Happened to me TOO many times.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Well, that's good. She sees that your interesting enough for other girls to want to talk to, and that will cause her to be into you more.HandyAndy said:Well during class, im always talking to other girls and having a good time with them, laughing and all...does she get jealous? If so, does her being jealous change the game or not?
Good, sometimes i do it on purpose just to see her reactiontick37 said:Well, that's good. She sees that your interesting enough for other girls to want to talk to, and that will cause her to be into you more.
I talk to women all the freakin' time. If I get a coldness from them, I just don't worry about them. If they seem interested, I go for it. It's not really that hard once you do it. It's just doing it that's hard. You need to try not to attach so many negative feelings to her (i.e. rejection, humiliation, and whatever else). Think of the good things that could come out of it, but the key is to not attach to much to it at all. You've lived your whole life, happily, without this girl. So, you really don't have anything to lose.HandyAndy said:Good, sometimes i do it on purpose just to see her reaction![]()
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I know its just that ive had such a long time to talk to her and shes been showing interest since the day I walked the classroom, with all the time that I didnt talk to her i built up all this negative tension and now im starting to feel nervous, i would have been able to talk to her if she wasnt showing any interest, for some reason i get nervous around the girls that actually like me :nervous:tick37 said:I talk to women all the freakin' time. If I get a coldness from them, I just don't worry about them. If they seem interested, I go for it. It's not really that hard once you do it. It's just doing it that's hard. You need to try not to attach so many negative feelings to her (i.e. rejection, humiliation, and whatever else). Think of the good things that could come out of it, but the key is to not attach to much to it at all. You've lived your whole life, happily, without this girl. So, you really don't have anything to lose.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Knowing the girl likes you should make it easier for you. Regret is far worse than rejection. Good luck, bro.HandyAndy said:I know its just that ive had such a long time to talk to her and shes been showing interest since the day I walked the classroom, with all the time that I didnt talk to her i built up all this negative tension and now im starting to feel nervous, i would have been able to talk to her if she wasnt showing any interest, for some reason i get nervous around the girls that actually like me :nervous:
Thanks for all the help, ill try this sometimetick37 said:Knowing the girl likes you should make it easier for you. Regret is far worse than rejection. Good luck, bro.
So true this happened to me some time ago when I did not f close this girl cause i liked her and wanted to move slow...LOL she moved on...tick37 said:If you don't make a move, she'll think you're a wimp. Does that help? She'll just move on to the next decent guy that gives her attention because she's single and she can.
Why don't you tell us HandyAndy? After all, giving all the advice you do you should know this.HandyAndy said:Why is it that when a girl shows interest you suddenly start to like her, when you never did before?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Shouldnt you be playing rock band or something?ElStud said:Why don't you tell us HandyAndy? After all, giving all the advice you do you should know this.