Thats another thing im afraid of lol, shes a quality girl too.ARrocket said:Yeah, it makes her jealous, but still, if you don't act, she'll just assume you don't like her.
Happened to me TOO many times.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Thats another thing im afraid of lol, shes a quality girl too.ARrocket said:Yeah, it makes her jealous, but still, if you don't act, she'll just assume you don't like her.
Happened to me TOO many times.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Well, that's good. She sees that your interesting enough for other girls to want to talk to, and that will cause her to be into you more.HandyAndy said:Well during class, im always talking to other girls and having a good time with them, laughing and all...does she get jealous? If so, does her being jealous change the game or not?
Good, sometimes i do it on purpose just to see her reactiontick37 said:Well, that's good. She sees that your interesting enough for other girls to want to talk to, and that will cause her to be into you more.
I talk to women all the freakin' time. If I get a coldness from them, I just don't worry about them. If they seem interested, I go for it. It's not really that hard once you do it. It's just doing it that's hard. You need to try not to attach so many negative feelings to her (i.e. rejection, humiliation, and whatever else). Think of the good things that could come out of it, but the key is to not attach to much to it at all. You've lived your whole life, happily, without this girl. So, you really don't have anything to lose.HandyAndy said:Good, sometimes i do it on purpose just to see her reaction![]()
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I know its just that ive had such a long time to talk to her and shes been showing interest since the day I walked the classroom, with all the time that I didnt talk to her i built up all this negative tension and now im starting to feel nervous, i would have been able to talk to her if she wasnt showing any interest, for some reason i get nervous around the girls that actually like me :nervous:tick37 said:I talk to women all the freakin' time. If I get a coldness from them, I just don't worry about them. If they seem interested, I go for it. It's not really that hard once you do it. It's just doing it that's hard. You need to try not to attach so many negative feelings to her (i.e. rejection, humiliation, and whatever else). Think of the good things that could come out of it, but the key is to not attach to much to it at all. You've lived your whole life, happily, without this girl. So, you really don't have anything to lose.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Knowing the girl likes you should make it easier for you. Regret is far worse than rejection. Good luck, bro.HandyAndy said:I know its just that ive had such a long time to talk to her and shes been showing interest since the day I walked the classroom, with all the time that I didnt talk to her i built up all this negative tension and now im starting to feel nervous, i would have been able to talk to her if she wasnt showing any interest, for some reason i get nervous around the girls that actually like me :nervous:
Thanks for all the help, ill try this sometimetick37 said:Knowing the girl likes you should make it easier for you. Regret is far worse than rejection. Good luck, bro.
So true this happened to me some time ago when I did not f close this girl cause i liked her and wanted to move slow...LOL she moved on...tick37 said:If you don't make a move, she'll think you're a wimp. Does that help? She'll just move on to the next decent guy that gives her attention because she's single and she can.
Why don't you tell us HandyAndy? After all, giving all the advice you do you should know this.HandyAndy said:Why is it that when a girl shows interest you suddenly start to like her, when you never did before?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Shouldnt you be playing rock band or something?ElStud said:Why don't you tell us HandyAndy? After all, giving all the advice you do you should know this.