"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why your wife won't have s3x with you

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http://blogs.salon.com/0003935/stories/2004/08/13/introduction.html
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Here are some choice exerpts. Now, can anyone guess why the following dude can't get any?

"On another note, we were intimate last night(the first time in a long time). I think my efforts to listen to her and UNDERSTAND may be having a small impact on how she feels towards me. I also did something different, after a 50 minute foot, leg and back massage(while she was reading her romance novel) I ASKED her if I had PERMISSION to play with her privates and was ready and willing to accept a 'no' answer. I figured that maybe she wasn't comforatbale with my typical massage then automatic moves into heavy groping and petting. I felt that this would give her my recognition that she has the POWER when it comes to her body.

I also bought her a red rose on the way to work this morning and came back home to put it in the kitchen(she always sleeps in until 10a.m.) for her as a sign of appreciation for the giving-of-herself last night."

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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IF u werent married to this girl....

U WOULD BE A COMPLETE AFC...

Quoted from the 40 year old virgin....

"UR PUTTIN THE PUZZY ON A PEDESTAL!!!!"
 
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Originally posted by tipsy_619
IF u werent married to this girl....

U WOULD BE A COMPLETE AFC...

Quoted from the 40 year old virgin....

"UR PUTTIN THE PUZZY ON A PEDESTAL!!!!"
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That must be the best quote of the movie and biggest lesson i learned. C &F / confidence whatever you call it, its all about inner game and not putting the puzzy on a pedestal, treat it just like any other old thing.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It's the Desire stupid.

Let me save you all an evening's worth of reading the entire blog of an essentially asexual woman attempting to improve men (oh, and women as an afterthought) in order to show you the 'secret' hoops you can jump through to getting hot and dirty with your spouse - it's desire.

The Desire Dynamic

You might also have a look at my post here:

Energizing Marriage
 
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Originally posted by tipsy_619
IF u werent married to this girl....

U WOULD BE A COMPLETE AFC...

Quoted from the 40 year old virgin....

"UR PUTTIN THE PUZZY ON A PEDESTAL!!!!"
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Uhhh.....he seems fairly fustrated to me. That man needs to yank her hair back while he rams his c%#@ up her a@@. That will fix the situation.
 
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