"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why your wife won't have s3x with you

stevera004

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http://blogs.salon.com/0003935/stories/2004/08/13/introduction.html
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Here are some choice exerpts. Now, can anyone guess why the following dude can't get any?

"On another note, we were intimate last night(the first time in a long time). I think my efforts to listen to her and UNDERSTAND may be having a small impact on how she feels towards me. I also did something different, after a 50 minute foot, leg and back massage(while she was reading her romance novel) I ASKED her if I had PERMISSION to play with her privates and was ready and willing to accept a 'no' answer. I figured that maybe she wasn't comforatbale with my typical massage then automatic moves into heavy groping and petting. I felt that this would give her my recognition that she has the POWER when it comes to her body.

I also bought her a red rose on the way to work this morning and came back home to put it in the kitchen(she always sleeps in until 10a.m.) for her as a sign of appreciation for the giving-of-herself last night."

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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IF u werent married to this girl....

U WOULD BE A COMPLETE AFC...

Quoted from the 40 year old virgin....

"UR PUTTIN THE PUZZY ON A PEDESTAL!!!!"
 

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Originally posted by tipsy_619
IF u werent married to this girl....

U WOULD BE A COMPLETE AFC...

Quoted from the 40 year old virgin....

"UR PUTTIN THE PUZZY ON A PEDESTAL!!!!"
That must be the best quote of the movie and biggest lesson i learned. C &F / confidence whatever you call it, its all about inner game and not putting the puzzy on a pedestal, treat it just like any other old thing.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It's the Desire stupid.

Let me save you all an evening's worth of reading the entire blog of an essentially asexual woman attempting to improve men (oh, and women as an afterthought) in order to show you the 'secret' hoops you can jump through to getting hot and dirty with your spouse - it's desire.

The Desire Dynamic

You might also have a look at my post here:

Energizing Marriage
 

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Originally posted by tipsy_619
IF u werent married to this girl....

U WOULD BE A COMPLETE AFC...

Quoted from the 40 year old virgin....

"UR PUTTIN THE PUZZY ON A PEDESTAL!!!!"

Uhhh.....he seems fairly fustrated to me. That man needs to yank her hair back while he rams his c%#@ up her a@@. That will fix the situation.
 
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