"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why you should or shouldn't date in today's western world

KevinRyman22

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I want to start off by saying this important fact:
Most men do not need a woman to be happy. It's weak men or men who desperately desire companionship/love/mushy crap/ or are lustful who feel they need women.

Now that we got that out the way.. You must understand the nature of women in the modern world. Women no longer are settling for the old archetypes of I need to be a classy, good girl who respects her man and only stays with one man. These new women are the type to lock down a boyfriend, and still entertain the likes, text messages, dms they get from other men.

It's when they feel COMFORTABLE in their relationships that women might act the worst. When a man keeps a woman desiring and on her toes, and on her best behavior, is when he is in control. When she feels comfortable, he is not in control. HE slowly starts to slip the grip of control and gets complacent, while she starts lessening the loyalty-- it starts with girls nights out, trips to miami and jamaica, then the occasional tinder fling--

The worst is when the man is insecure.. or worried that she is cheating. Any case like this, the man should not date at all.. and should spend the years it might take to work on himself.

When the culture and the programming of the western women is based on being a baddie, partying, infidelity, using men, being free and liberated, being a city girl, hot girl summers, tinder, instagram, social media-- how can you have genuinelly good women?

When you are spoiled from birth, have to work toward nothing, and then the world rewards you for selling your image alone which makes majority of men fall to their knees and pay for your nudes (OF), and hundreds of men are on their knees in your instagram DMs just for you existing-- how can you have women who care about relationships and commitment?


Relationships are becoming more and more transactional. It's now about how much he can buy you and spoil you rather than loving him for him. It's about how much status does my man have, -- and to an extent it always was.. Which was why women would go for tall guys-- because height was always a status symbol.

Why you should date in the modern world:
1) You have alot of money, high status
2) You are a tall dude
3) Large penis, exceptionally well in bed, can last a long time, high testosterone
4) You have some type of status, super popular, athlete, noteable person
--Sadly these 4 things are what keeps women loyal in a world full of jezebels, *****s, ego driven spoiled holes with false beauty adorning their flesh

Final thoughts:

If you don't fit the bracket above, I can guarantee you if you are dating in the western world you have a 30% chance of finding a good relationship and a 60% chance of getting played like a sucka!

"b-b-but I'm a good guy, im also tall and good in bed".. Yeah she's leaving you the second she finds a guy who is a baller.. Most women stay because they don't find those opportunities.. But evidentially , time and time again -- we see in these real world videos on youtube, the moment opportunities arise, its a 90% chance they will walk away from their boyfriends ON THE ****ING SPOT!
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why did you make the font size progressively larger?
 

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Relationships are becoming more and more transactional
As are all relations between humans in general. Audience enthusiasm for actresses dissolves more rapidly than roots on a baby tooth, when it becomes obvious that her talent doesn't extend very far beyond taking her clothes off
, after which producers stop providing her roles

Should your current squeeze conclude "The services I desire are no longer being provided", their moving on to an SO who does/at least appears to is more inevitable than broadcast TV's near-extinction has been, the moment cable and then the internet became ubiquitous in the lives of most First Worlders
 
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KevinRyman22

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Why did you make the font size progressively larger?
It holds the main points and makes it so that you can skip the rest if you want to get to the core message...

The men who got money, wealth, status, and are great in bed, or are attractive are theones who can make it in this current day and age.. The rest are suspectable to being played and ridiculed in group chats where the woman and her friends laugh about men.
 

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As are all relations between humans in general. Audience enthusiasm for actresses dissolves more rapidly than roots on a baby tooth, when it becomes obvious that her talent doesn't extend very far beyond taking her clothes off
, after which producers stop providing her roles

Should your current squeeze conclude "The services I desire are no longer being provided", their moving on to an SO who does/at least appears to is more inevitable than broadcast TV's near-extinction has been, the moment cable and then the internet became ubiquitous in the lives of most First Worlders
Agreed with everything you said.. and yeah she was super hot when she was young.. Love American Pie. Was a true babe..

I wanted to add to my post: A lot of men are clueless to the fact that these days women will **** as easily as we would... Theres almost no difference now for some women who have already lost their innocence.. Men are often foolish to this fact... Sometimes all it takes is one simple gesture, and some alcohol.. o rknowing a man has status or a nice place,-- or maybe he just touches her the right way.

Women are going to continue to lie about their body couns as well.. They dont want t o admit in this Tinder era, 20-24 bodies at age 24 is not uncommon.

The real key is for men to not get upset at the reality, but to accept it-- and practice discernment, so they can tell which girl is a bop /hoe and which one is not. It's not too hard to tell.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why did you make the font size progressively larger?
Because he wants to say "Pay attention to me. I am angry the hot girl under 30 doesn't find me attractive but I know what I'm talking about."
 
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