"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why you should never take a woman's words at face value

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ST8RUP, why are u bashin dat girl? lol...she said she waz a chick.

I just think you guys take this whole "women thang" too seriously....and it's why u are constantly here havin da "same ol debates."

Stop taking urself and women so seriously.........stop trying to say that women are shallow, women are this, women are that.....EACH INDIVUDAL PERSON IS DIFFERENT.

But as a whole, I am noticing that whether rich, poor, black, white, ghetto or not.......women are looking for a GREAT FVCK FIRST!

Now OF COURSE, if they CANNNNN, they will "be in a relationship" or "go after" a guy with money, resources, etc.... HELL I would to, wouldn't you? If a guy is DUMB ENUFF to give his money away then fvck it.....I'll take it.

All I'm saying is that you don't have to BE NOR DO soooo much to get women......I just think you guys put wayyyyyyyyyyy to much thought into this.
 

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STR8UP said:
At the usual risk of coming off as a braggart, I'm gonna tell you for 100% certain that I know how to rock a woman's sox and leave her wondering what just happened. Doesn't mean a goddamned thing when you place it against a woman's biological imperative. The 30 minutes of pure ecstasy you give her take a back seat to the flood of emotions she feels the other 16 hours she is awake.

So true. First off how is a girl going to really know you can "fvck good" before selecting you and she's actually fvcked you, unless you guessed it, she judging you on appearance? Or unless she's heard stories, therefore judging you on STATUS. Second you can fvck a girl till she's raw, but it means nothing more to her than giving a druggie hit of a drug that she can get easily from someone else on every corner..
 

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Some people just live in their own universe, and are afraid to step outside of it.
:crackup:

Look who's talking.

I think N.O.W. is paying iqqi to post.
 

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ketostix said:
So true. First off how is a girl going to really know you can "fvck good" before selecting you and she's actually fvcked you, unless you guessed it, she judging you on appearance? Or unless she's heard stories, therefore judging you on STATUS. Second you can fvck a girl till she's raw, but it means nothing more to her than giving a druggie hit of a drug that she can get easily from someone else on every corner..

You are taking fvck too seriously, young Keto. John means it like to stimulate a woman's mind, body, soul. Not just stick your d!ck in.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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John-467 said:
ST8RUP, why are u bashin dat girl? lol...she said she waz a chick.

I just think you guys take this whole "women thang" too seriously....and it's why u are constantly here havin da "same ol debates."

Stop taking urself and women so seriously.........stop trying to say that women are shallow, women are this, women are that.....EACH INDIVUDAL PERSON IS DIFFERENT.

But as a whole, I am noticing that whether rich, poor, black, white, ghetto or not.......women are looking for a GREAT FVCK FIRST!

Now OF COURSE, if they CANNNNN, they will "be in a relationship" or "go after" a guy with money, resources, etc.... HELL I would to, wouldn't you? If a guy is DUMB ENUFF to give his money away then fvck it.....I'll take it.

All I'm saying is that you don't have to BE NOR DO soooo much to get women......I just think you guys put wayyyyyyyyyyy to much thought into this.
You're right. Mods, delete sosuave.com. It serves no purpose.
 

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iqqi said:
by the way your first statement and the rest of your post... kind of contradict each other. silly goose!
Quote me then confront me.
 

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I'll tell you boys one thing.

Keep doing what you do, and you'll keep getting what you got.
Which is way better than what we were getting folowing advice simlar to yours! Iqqi OWNED!:crackup:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Quote me then confront me.
Well, sir. In your first statement you said my statement was basically because I was a girl. Then the rest of your post dealt with the myth that I am really a man. The me being a man myth comes from my staggering ability to reason and be witty. And that all contradicts your first statement that I said something because I was a girl!

You guys and your "you a girl, you a man" insults. Its funny how much those are thrown around when you don't agree with someone, or someone doesn't agree with you. It doesn't even make any kind of logical sense!
 

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iqqi said:
I'll tell you boys one thing.

Keep doing what you do, and you'll keep getting what you got.
It's funny because, as much sh1t as you talk, you seem surprised that people get annoyed with you.

You lack tact.

Why are you even on this site? What does this do for you?

Don't you have girlfriends to talk to? Don't you have friends?

Most guys are on this site for very similar reasons. It's a site designed for men, and a particular type of man or boy.
 

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I'll tell you boys one thing.

Keep doing what you do, and you'll keep getting what you got.

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ok, iqqi, I, for one, will.

'Cause I'm getting what i want. So, I'm gonna keep doing what I do. I'm having fun. And learning from the guys here, too.

All your talk is just that. Chick blah, blah, blah.
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Which is way better than what we were getting folowing advice simlar to yours! Iqqi OWNED!:crackup:
OOOOH! yeah! you are so clever! you really got me, you witty (not) little devil!

You can't own anything when you can't even spell, mon cherie.
 

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You are taking fvck too seriously, young Keto. John means it like to stimulate a woman's mind, body, soul. Not just stick your d!ck in.

I'm taking fvcking too seriously!? Talk about you ahving a subjective reality, like all women. John made it perfectly clear it's all about "fvcking" and I showed why that's not so, unless maybe you're dealing with the lowest status ghetto skanks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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iqqi said:
Well, sir. In your first statement you said my statement was basically because I was a girl. Then the rest of your post dealt with the myth that I am really a man. The me being a man myth comes from my staggering ability to reason and be witty. And that all contradicts your first statement that I said something because I was a girl!

You guys and your "you a girl, you a man" insults. Its funny how much those are thrown around when you don't agree with someone, or someone doesn't agree with you. It doesn't even make any kind of logical sense!
I call you a man because you act like an a55 when your uncalled for attitude makes its rounds.

I call you a little girl when you act like a child incapable of realizing your own shortcomings.
 

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See I predicted this in the begining of the thread. I knew a female would say women don't value money, status or looks. No according to women it's personality and being a nice guy. Gee, why do so many guys have problems with women when all they need is to be personable and nice:rolleyes: ?
There are a lot of smart people on this board, and I certainly don't claim to be the smartest, but at the same time I believe that even some of the more intelligent posters still have an umbillical cord attached to the matrix. Keto, you truly do "get it".

That was the ACTUAL topic of this thread. A woman CANNOT understand her own motivations. "Why do I keep going back to the guy who beats me?" Duh....because you are a SLAVE to your emotions woman! You can't see enough logic to pull yourself out of that self destructive emotional abyss long enough to understand what is truly happening. You have one thing and one thing only to guide you through life, and that is EMOTION.
 

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I'm taking fvcking too seriously!? Talk about you ahving a subjective reality, like all women. John made it perfectly clear it's all about "fvcking" and I showed why that's not so, unless maybe you're dealing with the lowest status ghetto skanks.
Don't you enjoy her condescending remarks, young keto?
 

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ok, iqqi, I, for one, will.

'Cause I'm getting what i want. So, I'm gonna keep doing what I do. I'm having fun. And learning from the guys here, too.

All your talk is just that. Chick blah, blah, blah.
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Why would you even get involved in the iq bashing right now, I don't get it.

I am glad that you are getting what you want, Alias, of course you should keep doing what you do. DUH.

That statement applies to the people who aren't getting what they want. Most likely they aren't changing anything they do.

It is common sense, but noone seems to change their thinking, and change their actions. So they keep getting the same things out of life. And they stay unsatisfied with what they are getting.

Whatever. Bash on. (John... this is what they probably do with girls in real life too...)

Bye, fellas.
 

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You can't own anything when you can't even spell, mon cherie.
Did she just try to insult someone for a spelling error or typo?

Can a mod at least explain why people like iqqi (and wyldfire incidentally) are allowed to post 2k+ posts?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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