iqqi
Master Don Juan
Yes, yes, you sure pegged me.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Why you should never take a woman's words at face value
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
ST8RUP, why are u bashin dat girl? lol...she said she waz a chick.
I just think you guys take this whole "women thang" too seriously....and it's why u are constantly here havin da "same ol debates."
Stop taking urself and women so seriously.........stop trying to say that women are shallow, women are this, women are that.....EACH INDIVUDAL PERSON IS DIFFERENT.
But as a whole, I am noticing that whether rich, poor, black, white, ghetto or not.......women are looking for a GREAT FVCK FIRST!
Now OF COURSE, if they CANNNNN, they will "be in a relationship" or "go after" a guy with money, resources, etc.... HELL I would to, wouldn't you? If a guy is DUMB ENUFF to give his money away then fvck it.....I'll take it.
All I'm saying is that you don't have to BE NOR DO soooo much to get women......I just think you guys put wayyyyyyyyyyy to much thought into this.
I just think you guys take this whole "women thang" too seriously....and it's why u are constantly here havin da "same ol debates."
Stop taking urself and women so seriously.........stop trying to say that women are shallow, women are this, women are that.....EACH INDIVUDAL PERSON IS DIFFERENT.
But as a whole, I am noticing that whether rich, poor, black, white, ghetto or not.......women are looking for a GREAT FVCK FIRST!
Now OF COURSE, if they CANNNNN, they will "be in a relationship" or "go after" a guy with money, resources, etc.... HELL I would to, wouldn't you? If a guy is DUMB ENUFF to give his money away then fvck it.....I'll take it.
All I'm saying is that you don't have to BE NOR DO soooo much to get women......I just think you guys put wayyyyyyyyyyy to much thought into this.
STR8UP said:
So true. First off how is a girl going to really know you can "fvck good" before selecting you and she's actually fvcked you, unless you guessed it, she judging you on appearance? Or unless she's heard stories, therefore judging you on STATUS. Second you can fvck a girl till she's raw, but it means nothing more to her than giving a druggie hit of a drug that she can get easily from someone else on every corner..
wjh
Master Don Juan
:crackup:iqqi said:
Look who's talking.
I think N.O.W. is paying iqqi to post.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
ketostix said:
You are taking fvck too seriously, young Keto. John means it like to stimulate a woman's mind, body, soul. Not just stick your d!ck in.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
wjh
Master Don Juan
You're right. Mods, delete sosuave.com. It serves no purpose.John-467 said:
iqqi
Master Don Juan
I'll tell you boys one thing.
Keep doing what you do, and you'll keep getting what you got.
Keep doing what you do, and you'll keep getting what you got.
wjh
Master Don Juan
Anymore cliches up your sleeve, little girl?iqqi said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
Well, sir. In your first statement you said my statement was basically because I was a girl. Then the rest of your post dealt with the myth that I am really a man. The me being a man myth comes from my staggering ability to reason and be witty. And that all contradicts your first statement that I said something because I was a girl!STR8UP said:
You guys and your "you a girl, you a man" insults. Its funny how much those are thrown around when you don't agree with someone, or someone doesn't agree with you. It doesn't even make any kind of logical sense!
wjh
Master Don Juan
It's funny because, as much sh1t as you talk, you seem surprised that people get annoyed with you.iqqi said:
You lack tact.
Why are you even on this site? What does this do for you?
Don't you have girlfriends to talk to? Don't you have friends?
Most guys are on this site for very similar reasons. It's a site designed for men, and a particular type of man or boy.
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ok, iqqi, I, for one, will.
'Cause I'm getting what i want. So, I'm gonna keep doing what I do. I'm having fun. And learning from the guys here, too.
All your talk is just that. Chick blah, blah, blah.
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iqqi
Master Don Juan
OOOOH! yeah! you are so clever! you really got me, you witty (not) little devil!ketostix said:
You can't own anything when you can't even spell, mon cherie.
iqqi said:
I'm taking fvcking too seriously!? Talk about you ahving a subjective reality, like all women. John made it perfectly clear it's all about "fvcking" and I showed why that's not so, unless maybe you're dealing with the lowest status ghetto skanks.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
wjh
Master Don Juan
I call you a man because you act like an a55 when your uncalled for attitude makes its rounds.iqqi said:
I call you a little girl when you act like a child incapable of realizing your own shortcomings.
There are a lot of smart people on this board, and I certainly don't claim to be the smartest, but at the same time I believe that even some of the more intelligent posters still have an umbillical cord attached to the matrix. Keto, you truly do "get it".ketostix said:See I predicted this in the begining of the thread. I knew a female would say women don't value money, status or looks. No according to women it's personality and being a nice guy. Gee, why do so many guys have problems with women when all they need is to be personable and nice?
That was the ACTUAL topic of this thread. A woman CANNOT understand her own motivations. "Why do I keep going back to the guy who beats me?" Duh....because you are a SLAVE to your emotions woman! You can't see enough logic to pull yourself out of that self destructive emotional abyss long enough to understand what is truly happening. You have one thing and one thing only to guide you through life, and that is EMOTION.
wjh
Master Don Juan
Don't you enjoy her condescending remarks, young keto?ketostix said:
iqqi
Master Don Juan
Why would you even get involved in the iq bashing right now, I don't get it.aliasguy said:
I am glad that you are getting what you want, Alias, of course you should keep doing what you do. DUH.
That statement applies to the people who aren't getting what they want. Most likely they aren't changing anything they do.
It is common sense, but noone seems to change their thinking, and change their actions. So they keep getting the same things out of life. And they stay unsatisfied with what they are getting.
Whatever. Bash on. (John... this is what they probably do with girls in real life too...)
Bye, fellas.
wjh
Master Don Juan
Did she just try to insult someone for a spelling error or typo?iqqi said:
Can a mod at least explain why people like iqqi (and wyldfire incidentally) are allowed to post 2k+ posts?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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