“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Why you no longer need to be a DJ

gentleman193

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Once upon a time, getting laid was something. Now, it's piss. Now, it's free. You just gotta show up. DOn't believe me, read this:

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A54736-2004Aug10.html

Fact is, game or not, you score. It's like playing DOOM with unlimited ammo and unlimited lives. There is no challenge.

Therefore, IMO, all of this "DJ" stuff is worthless. The prize is worthless.

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The TRUE GAME is seduction. Pootang is nothing. But make her fall in love with you, dream about you, beg to be with you -- and then, if you feel like it, break her heart (or not) -- that is something. That, in fact, is MORE REAL TODAY, b/c the more cynical the woman the harder it is to grab her heart, to make her feel for you.

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Interesting, it used to be women who had toplay this game with men. But now, women act like men. They are the sexual agressors, men are supposed to service them with a snap of the fingers when they shake it at us.

So I say from now on make them love you first. Then you can have whatever you want. And in the end you won't get hurt.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Well that's 20-30 seconds of my life I'll never get back.
Damn... I could've used that time to watch some commercials! What the hell man?

~ivan
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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I didn't read the article but I'm guess someone is confusing a DJ with a Player. Nothing wrong with being a player if that's the road you've chosen, but I do not believe that DJ skills will ever become worthless.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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being a DJ is not about getting laid, its a way of life not just about getting women that is only part of it, and there is also a diffrence between getting laid and being able to get in to a good relationship with a decent women
 

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Sorry, I don't see how this topic pertains specifically to older men.

Moved to Don Juan Discussion.
 
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