Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Why you no longer need to be a DJ

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Once upon a time, getting laid was something. Now, it's piss. Now, it's free. You just gotta show up. DOn't believe me, read this:

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A54736-2004Aug10.html

Fact is, game or not, you score. It's like playing DOOM with unlimited ammo and unlimited lives. There is no challenge.

Therefore, IMO, all of this "DJ" stuff is worthless. The prize is worthless.

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The TRUE GAME is seduction. Pootang is nothing. But make her fall in love with you, dream about you, beg to be with you -- and then, if you feel like it, break her heart (or not) -- that is something. That, in fact, is MORE REAL TODAY, b/c the more cynical the woman the harder it is to grab her heart, to make her feel for you.

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Interesting, it used to be women who had toplay this game with men. But now, women act like men. They are the sexual agressors, men are supposed to service them with a snap of the fingers when they shake it at us.

So I say from now on make them love you first. Then you can have whatever you want. And in the end you won't get hurt.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well that's 20-30 seconds of my life I'll never get back.
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Damn... I could've used that time to watch some commercials! What the hell man?

~ivan
 
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I didn't read the article but I'm guess someone is confusing a DJ with a Player. Nothing wrong with being a player if that's the road you've chosen, but I do not believe that DJ skills will ever become worthless.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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being a DJ is not about getting laid, its a way of life not just about getting women that is only part of it, and there is also a diffrence between getting laid and being able to get in to a good relationship with a decent women
 
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Sorry, I don't see how this topic pertains specifically to older men.

Moved to Don Juan Discussion.
 
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