"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

Why you no longer need to be a DJ

G

gentleman193

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 16, 2003
Messages
149
Reaction score
0
Age
52
Once upon a time, getting laid was something. Now, it's piss. Now, it's free. You just gotta show up. DOn't believe me, read this:

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A54736-2004Aug10.html

Fact is, game or not, you score. It's like playing DOOM with unlimited ammo and unlimited lives. There is no challenge.

Therefore, IMO, all of this "DJ" stuff is worthless. The prize is worthless.

~

The TRUE GAME is seduction. Pootang is nothing. But make her fall in love with you, dream about you, beg to be with you -- and then, if you feel like it, break her heart (or not) -- that is something. That, in fact, is MORE REAL TODAY, b/c the more cynical the woman the harder it is to grab her heart, to make her feel for you.

~

Interesting, it used to be women who had toplay this game with men. But now, women act like men. They are the sexual agressors, men are supposed to service them with a snap of the fingers when they shake it at us.

So I say from now on make them love you first. Then you can have whatever you want. And in the end you won't get hurt.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

A

aBAzLLnA

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 21, 2002
Messages
736
Reaction score
0
Well that's 20-30 seconds of my life I'll never get back.
Click to expand...
Damn... I could've used that time to watch some commercials! What the hell man?

~ivan
 
F

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,481
Reaction score
65
Location
Galt's Gulch
I didn't read the article but I'm guess someone is confusing a DJ with a Player. Nothing wrong with being a player if that's the road you've chosen, but I do not believe that DJ skills will ever become worthless.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

C

check_mate_kid_uk

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 27, 2004
Messages
2,077
Reaction score
4
Location
UK
being a DJ is not about getting laid, its a way of life not just about getting women that is only part of it, and there is also a diffrence between getting laid and being able to get in to a good relationship with a decent women
 
S

Survivor

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 11, 2000
Messages
763
Reaction score
26
Age
50
Sorry, I don't see how this topic pertains specifically to older men.

Moved to Don Juan Discussion.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top